10 Questions To Ask So As To Avoid 20 Years of 20 Questions

Whether it be a job interview or a first date, how do you really get to know someone? The following are 10 questions many psychologists recommend as the best for getting to know someone:

1. Who in your family are you the closest to?
2. What is your biggest fear?
3. What is your best natural, God given talent?
4. What quality do you most value in a life partner?
5. What is the biggest regret in your life so far?
6. What is your favorite mode of relaxation?
7. What is your earliest memory?
8. When did you last feel truly happy?
9. What do you feel about you, if anything, is shocking?
10. If you could have one "do over," in your life what would it be?

If you, yourself, do not know the answers to some of these questions, ask a family member or a very good friend to tell you. Sometimes we need our friends and family to tell us about ourselves...our natural talents and what we need to improve upon.

Enjoy!