Bolivia - The Land of Pasankhalla & Pacena

 Popcorn "Pasankhalla" was originated in Bolivia. They also have many well known varieties of potatoes, the main staple of the Bolivian diet farmed by farmers called "Campesinos." Pacena is their famous beer. Spicy Salsa and BBQ are also common. Although voting is mandatory, and begins at 18, which is progressive, Bolivians adhere to Old European Manners (see post from August 12, 2020), so be sure to be very polite and use your magic words. 

Bolivia is a large country in central South America the size of Texas and California combined! It has 4 different geographical areas.  Altiplano is in the West. It's between the Andes & is a very high elevation where the temperatures are cold and dry. Yungas is in the North East which has a medium elevation. The Valles Region is in the South where there are hills and valleys. Oriente is in the lowlands where the grass lands are and tropical forests. So, it's best to layer! A thin, wool pashmina will be perfect! 

Population in Bolivia is 8 million, half of which is rural. Santa Cruz is 625K. Sucre is the Capital, but there are many government offices and international travelers in La Paz. GDP is $784USD per capita. Natural resources include Coca, sugarcane, coffee, soybeans and corn. Bolivians are known for their cattle, goats, sheep, petroleum, NG, tin, zinc, gold, iron, silver, timber and fish.

Language is Spanish & local Indian dialects. DO NOT wear traditional Indian clothing. Insulting. Ethnicity is multi-cultural, including 30% Mestizo, 30% Quechua, 25% Aymara, 15% European. Bolivia is a 95% Catholic country with indigenous beliefs and traditions. Multi-generations live together. Family is a #1 priority. Elders are revered. Women are traditionally homemakers. Dress is conservative. 

Waiving your index finger means "No." Street vendors and Taxi Drivers use the "so-so" hand gesture, which also means "No." The "fig" hand gesture is rude. Best to stay away from all hand gestures. 

Never eat while walking down a public street. Cover your mouth when yawning. Never whisper (rude) but keep your voice low. Never sit on a desk, table or ledge (rude). Slumping is rude. Avoid "Carnival" week to do business. Always carry your Passport. Sporting goods stores have clothing with hidden pockets. Watch for their sales! Drink bottled water only & carry chewable pepto bismol pills.

Education is valued, but only half of children finish 8th Grade. Literacy is 80%. Bolivians are close talkers. Eye contact is important. Bolivians are kind, gentle and concerned for the general welfare of others. Social identity is predicated upon one's family history and reputation.

Sports is a popular conversational topic. Do not talk about politics or religion. Do not praise Chile, Brazil or Paraguay (lost land in wars). Blend into the crowd as there are isolated terrorist attacks. 

High altitude and the hot sun can effect your balance and you can get dehydrated without realizing it. Carry a hat everywhere! Also, be very careful about your alcohol consumption. Chewing Coca leaves can help with altitude sickness. Coca leaves can also be drunk in tea. 

Eat in the Continental style only. Eat everything on your plate. Never touch your food with your hands. Complimenting food means you want more. Don't leave the table until everyone is finished. Breakfast is Continental: coffee, tea, bread & cheese. Lunch is the main meal, consisting of soup and a hot entree. This heavy lunch is why many stores are closed between Noon and 2:00pm. Most people go home for lunch and a nap (alnuerzo de hora). Tea and cakes are served at 4:00pm, and dinner is served late at 9:00pm. 

Traditional foods include: Quinoa (grain eaten by the poor), Huminta (tamales), Saltena (meat or chicken pie with potatoes, olives & raisins), Chuno (freeze dried potatoes added to soup & side dishes), Pasankhalla (popcorn, and San Pedro (white grape liquor). 

Friday nights are for men to go out and relax. Men are "Machismo." Women are secondary. 

Spanish "Magic Words" include: Yes = Si, No = No, Good Morning = Buenos dias, Good Evening = Buenos Noches, Hello = Hola, Goodbye = Adios, Please = Por favor. Thank you = Gracias, You're welcome = De Nada, I'm sorry = Lo Siento, Excuse me = Perdoneme, How are you = Como eta usted.

Gift Giving: pen & pencil sets, Fine Art from the US, Company logo gifts, coffee table books from your home region, fine wine or Whisky, gourmet chocolates, and hard candies for children. DO NOT give yellow or purple flowers, as these are funeral flowers. Open your gifts immediately. 

Bolivian currency is the Boliviano. It is divided into 100 Centavos. Always exchange your money before you leave with your local bank. This process takes about 3 weeks. Never exchange your money at an airport (rip off) or on the street (dangerous & you don't know what you are getting).

Tip the Porter $2 USD per bag. Tip the wait staff a small extra cash tip traditionally left on the table as a 10% service charge is included in the bill, and they are now paid a living wage. With a Taxi, ALWAYS ask what the price will be BEFORE entering the car. Tip the Maid $4 USD per day. 

Bolivians are warm, friendly people who appreciate you for who you are, 

not for what you have.  

The Medieval Kingdom of Belgium - Head of the EU and NATO

As well as their famous chocolates, did you know Renaissance architecture abounds in Old World Belgium? This small Kingdom, a bit larger than the State of Maryland, has 3 distinct regions: the Dutch-speaking Flanders Region, which used to be thought as the language of servants, French-speaking Wallonia Southern "High Court" Region and German-speaking community in the East. Chic Luxembourg is famous for its global banking. Belgians speak 3-4 languages well. Geographically, it is located around many major rivers. So, please use your best "European Old World Manners" (see post from August 12, 2020)

The Capital of this densely populated hereditary yet Federal Parliamentary Constitutional Monarchy is Brussels with a population of 1 million. Belgium has a population of 11.5 million. GDP is $50,115 per capita. 

Average temperatures are a mild 32-73 Degrees Fahrenheit. Winters can be foggy & Summers are cool. Best to layer. A fine, thin wool Pashmina is worth its weight in gold, as is a pocket, foldable travel umbrella. Currency is the Euro. Natural Resources are coal, NG, marble, slate, and sandstone.

Belgians are known for working hard and playing hard. They are socially reserved and aloof until you get to know them a bit. Family life is multi-generational and strong. 

90% of Belgians are Roman Catholic, so don't discuss religion, money, politics or personal matters. 

Language for Business is English. Dress is conservative. Women hold their hands out first for handshaking, go first with introductions and stand for introductions. Repeat your name when being introduced. Use formal last names and proper titles until invited to use first names. Shake hands with everyone upon greeting and departing. Be punctual. Gentlemen, stand up when a woman enters the room or gets up from the table. Accept a drink offered by your host. 

Dress is casual chic. When traveling, always look clean and pressed. No bra straps showing or halter tops. No dirty sandals or dirty feet. No shorts in the evenings. Speak softly. Fitting in is key. Do not blow your nose, pick your teeth or scratch your head in public. Rude! 

Toasts: "A Votre Sante" (French for: To your health), and "Op uw rezoned head" (Dutch for: To your health). Brussels has more 5 star restaurants than anywhere else in Europe, other than in France. 

Eat in the Continental Style only. Keep your wrists onto of the table (still a trust issue dating back to the 14th Century when those wanting to kill the King hid knives up their sleeves at the dinner table). The fish course will have fish knife and fork. To beckon a waiter, raise your hand and make eye contact. 

Table tipping is not required as a 15% charge is added to your bill. It is tradition to leave a bit of extra cash on the table for great service, or you may want to hand it directly to the server. Finish all the food on your plate. The female guest of honor will be seated next to the host. Relax and have nice conversation for an hour after your meal ends with a coffee or rum. Meals are to be enjoyed! Tip the Maid 3 Euros per day. Tip the Porter 2 Euros per bag. Tip the Restroom Usher 2 Euros.  

Breakfast "Petite Dejeuner" is Continental. Lunch "Dejuener" is cold cuts, sandwiches, fruit, and rolls. Dinner "Diner" is a multi-course meal: appetizer, soup, fish, sherbet (cleanses the pallet) main course (meat), salad last, then dessert, which may be fruit and cheese. Coffee is served AFTER dessert and may be in a living or sitting room, or out on a nice porch, and gentlemen may smoke cigars. 

Local cuisine includes mussels, eels, pork, lamb stew, beef cooked in beer, rabbit cooked in wine, stewed chicken, game, fish, cheese and fruit. 

The "W. C." is the restroom: "Dames" (F) and "Hommes" (M). Hot water = "Chaude." Cold = "Froide." Be careful, as these spigots may be reversed (hot on the right and cold on the left). 

Gift Giving includes: famous Belgian chocolates, local coffee table books from your home region, fine Scotch, and lovely flowers (not chrysanthemums - funeral flowers). Do not give extravagant gifts. Could be considered a bribe. Do not give personal gifts (bath products or perfume). These gifts are for lovers and family only. 

"Vinkensport" is an old Flanders game played to see how many songs 

a caged Finch can sing in an hour.

Australia - Independent and Casual, with 3 Time Zones!

 In 1770, Captain James Cook named Australia "The New South Wales." It's the world's largest Island. A vast and wild land. Australia has 3 time zones. There is no sales tax. Gold was discovered in Australia in 1852. They also have 600+ fine wines, a source of national pride. Many of these wineries are located in the popular Barossa Vally and make great Hostess gifts! Even with Australia's Western style economy, it's surprisingly an "Old World European" society (see post from August 12, 2020), where respect is based on your achievements, not on who your family is, or your educational level. Please be sure to use your best Old European Manners and do not compare Australians to the British.   

Australia is the 6th largest country in the world, and is 3 million square miles with a population of 19 million. 85% of the population lives in urban cities. Melbourne has a population of 3.5M, Sydney 3.7M, Brisbane 1.4M, Perth 1.25M, and 330,000 live in Canberra. GDP is $23,600 USD per capita.

As a British Colony, Australia is a constitutional monarchy, with Queen Elizabeth II currently as Sovereign, but the head of the government is the Prime Minister.

 Natural resources include: coal, copper, iron, lead, zinc, tin, uranium, crude oil, NG, and gold! Australia is the #1 producer of wool in the world. They are known for their delicious meats, sugar, fine wines, fruit and "shrimp on the barbie." 

Although Australians have an independent attitude, in conversation, don't argue, as it is considered rude. Stay away from all hand gestures, especially the "thumb's up" gesture, as it is considered to be obscene. Keep your hands out of your pockets other than to make change. Europeans wonder what you are doing in there! Also, speak quietly. Do not be loud or boisterous. Do not get drunk at the Pub. Rude! 

Weather is tropical and dry. The sun is intense! Wear sunscreen, UV clothing & always wear a hat. Australia's beautiful & many beaches are marked "Family" & "Topless." Always pay attention to the flags on the beach and ALWAYS swim within those boundaries. Mind the beach where you pick to swim. Waters can have crocks, sharks and stingers.  Mind the tides which can change very quickly and become dangerous rip tides. Do Not litter on any beach. Speaking of wild life, be very careful around kangaroo's and Koala's. They are, after all, wild animals. Never, ever hike alone. 

The multi-cultural ethnic make up of Australia is: 25% Australian, 15.8% Aboriginal, 26% British, 3.3% Italian, 7.5% Irish, 6.4% Scotish, 3.1% Chinese and 2% each Indian, Dutch, Greek and New Zealander. 

Religion is reported to be 26% Roman Catholic, 13% Anglican, Protestant 23%, Hindu 2%, Muslim 2.6% and 30% unspecified. While more diversified than in the past, best not to talk about religion. 

Dress is smart casual. Look pressed & tucked in, not sloppy with dirty shoes. When out in the evenings, Ladies, please, no bra straps showing or tube tops. Gentlemen, please wear long pants & collared shirts. 

Popular Sports include Cricket, soccer, surfing "Footy" (Australian rules football) & Rugby. Australians have a great sense of humor, are adventuresome, have strong opinions, so always be a good sport. They are family oriented. Friendly. Communication is direct, but don't shout. NEVER wink at a woman.

Hand shaking is 2 firm shakes, then down. A woman offers her hand first. Women "Air kiss." Use formal names until invited to do otherwise. Conveniently, "Ms." is preferred over Miss or Mrs. 

Cover your mouth when yawning. Women DO NOT stand at the Bar. Gentlemen, this is your time to shine. Order your women friends a "1/2 Pint" at the Bar, and bring it to them at your table. Men can order "A Pint."  Scotch Whisky is popular. Use quiet hand gestures to summon a waiter. 

English Breakfast of sausage, bacon, ham, tomato, egg, toast & jam, is traditional and is served between 7:30am-8:30am. Continental breakfast is later and popular too. "Elevensees" tea is 10:30am-11:00am. Lunch is between 12:00-2:00. Afternoon Tea is 4:00-5:00. Dinner is 6:00pm-8:00pm. Eat in the Continental style only. Don't say: "I'm stuffed" after a meal. This means you are pregnant.

Tipping is not widespread. Wait staff are paid a living wage. Tip the waiter 10% if the service is excellent. Enjoy Australia's varied ethnic cuisine and famous seafood, "John Dory" local fish, rock oysters and Victorian "rabbis" (like lobster), "carpetbagger steak" (beef stuffed with oysters & lamb). Try "Veggiemite" but NOT with jelly. "White coffee" is coffee with milk. 

Toasts are "Bottoms Up"and "Cheers." Do not drink a toast to yourself, but rather smile and sit quietly. Do visit a Pub, but don't talk too much or too loud, and don't brag. Also important to NOT drink too much. This behavior is considered unacceptable and rude.  

When taking a Taxi, sit in the front seat and round up the tip for the driver. Tip the Maid $4 per day. Tip the Porter $2 per bag. If you ride the bus, when exiting, thank the bus driver.  

Currency is the Australian dollar, with the same denomination as the American dollar. Always exchange your money before you leave. Takes about 3 weeks at your local bank. Never exchange money with a street vendor. You don't know if they are legitimate and/or you will get a worse rate of exchange.

Say "Koala's" instead of Koala Bears." Do not imitate "G-Day." Considered rude. Say Good Day instead. Also, don't discuss the Kangaroo "Chew the Rho" as it's a controversial delicacy.

"Cutting down the tall poppy" is an expression used to describe those persons who, for no particular reason but jealousy, put down others for their successes or achievements. 

Gift Giving includes: fresh flowers, fine chocolates, coffee table books or specialty foods from your home region (i.e. Virginia peanuts), and crafts.

Remember: Treat everyone as equals. Don't compare Australians to the British. 

        

Yes, "Thank You" notes even work up in the sky!

 WOW! Yes, even a "Thank You" note on an airplane is effective, and nice! Well done flight crew! 

Argentina - A Silver Land of Horses, Leather Saddles and "Good Air"

 

Argentina, meaning "silver" is its own country in South America. It is said: "Argentines are a nation of Italians who speak Spanish and think they are British living in Paris." Argentina has had 2 female Presidents. They invented Radio Broadcasting and continue to have the largest film industry in the Spanish speaking world. 

Argentina is the size of the USA. It is also the second largest South American country. The sea region is the lowest at 138 feet below sea level. Argentina's Capital of 12 million people is Buenos Aires, meaning "good air" and Buenos Aires is modeled after Paris, France! Argentina's total population is 34 million.  The proper name for citizens there is "Argentines", not the adjective "argentine." Residents of Buenos Aires are referred to as "Portenos." Also, Argentina is an Old European society, and they use Old European manners, so when visiting, please use these fine, formal manners and be open to new ideas!  (refer to "Old European Manners" post from August 12, 2020).   

Argentina is 1/3 grasslands. Their abundant natural resources include zinc, copper, petroleum, uranium, gold, silver, and oil. They farm sheep, soybeans, sugar, wheat, cattle and grapes (good wines). Argentina is known for their exquisite equestrian leather goods, horses and beef. Their government is a Federal Republic. Before World War II, Argentina was the 6th richest nation in the world. Argentina's GDP is $8,500.00 per capita. Their history dates back to the Paleolithic period and is diverse in culture. 

Argentines are 93% Catholic. They speak the dialect of Castile, Spain. Trying a few magic words in Spanish is much appreciated. Ask "Hablo Castellano" instead of "Hablo Espanol." The public is well educated. The literacy rate is 96%. Family is paramount and family values are old world conservative. School and University are free. Languages spoken are Spanish, French, Italian and German. The Ethnic make up is 75% European and 25% Mestizo (a classification used to refer to a person of combined White and Indigenous American ancestry). The term "Mestizo was used for mixed race "castes" during the Spanish Empire.

Argentina is famous for the Tango and their infamous nightclubs. Take one simple lesson and learn the Tango if you can! Theatre and opera are also very popular. Dress is savvy city chic (black) and gentlemen wear jackets and long pants in the evenings. Women dress conservatively. Arrive 30-60 minutes late to any party, but not to a dinner party. Do not discuss religion, and Evita Peron is either loved or hated, so best not to discuss politics either. Do not talk about the Falkland Islands. Do not  criticize anyone in public. Considered very rude! Talk about the weather, soccer, and how Buenos Aires is so "European!"   

Eye contact is very important. When shaking hands, nod. Air kisses are between friends only. Argentinians are close talkers and touchers. Do not stand or speak with your hands on your hips. Cover your mouth when yawning. Index finger around your ear means "crazy." Hitting the palm of your left hand with your right fist means "stupid" or "I don't believe you." Best to stay away from all hand gestures, and gentlemen, please do not walk around with your hands in your pockets. Pants pockets are for making change only. Considered rude or obscene. Do not lean on a counter or chair. 

Popular sports are soccer, horse racing and polo called "Pato," their official National sport.  Many horse enthusiasts visit Argentina to peruse and purchase Argentina's famous leather saddles and bridals. Do not eat or drink while walking in public or on a public street. Do not blow your nose or pick your teeth in public. Stay away from all hand gestures. When out at restaurants, order the local alcohol as imports are very expensive. Argentinian wine is also a point of national pride! Do not wear native costumes. 

To beckon a waiter, "señor", raise your hand with your index finger extended. In many cafes, cupping your hands means you want a cup of coffee. Breakfast is late as everyone loves to sleep in! Lunch is the main meal. Tea is at 4:00. Dinner starts around 9:00 p.m. Eat in the Continental style only. Argentines traditionally eat Gnocchi on the 29th of each month as this was when most people were paid. Enjoy Gnocchi Day! Many fabulous Italian recipes to try, write down and take home! Tip the waiter 10%. Tip the maid $5 USD per day. Tip the Porter $2 USD per bag. The currency is the Peso. 1 Peso = 100 Centavos. Carry around small bills and some change. When paying the Taxi driver, do not ask for change. Watch for pickpockets. Don't cross the street as traffic will not yield. "Props" = flirtatious comments and are common, so simply say "Thank you" and keep on walking. Be on time for a meeting.

Magic words include: Yes = "Si Gracias," No = "No," Hello = "Hola," Goodbye = Adios, Good Morning = "Buenos Dias," Good Evening = "Buenos Noches," You're Welcome = "De Nada," Pleased to meet you = "Encantado," How are you = "Como eta usted?," On the dot = "En punto."  

Carne asada = beef steak. Asado = BBQ (beef and lamb). Gauchos BBQ = whole cow. Asado con cure = roasted beef in its hide over an open fire pit. Empanadas = pastries stuffed with meat/ham/chicken/seafood/eggs/olives/veggies/rasins/cheese. The Empanadas is basically the Argentinian version of "Pasties" from Cornwall, UK. Pucheros = stews. Cocro = a native stew of meat, corn & potatoes. Mate = national beverage (tea brewed from Holly tree). Drink bottled water (malaria).

Gift giving includes pretty flowers, fine chocolates, candy or gourmet cookies. Nice Scotch. Coffee table books. Do not give extravagant gifts as this may be interpreted as a bribe. Do not give personal items such as perfume, soaps or bath products.  Open your gift in front of the giver at once and thank them! Write a "Thank you" note as soon as possible. 

    Don't rush your conversation. The person is more important than the hour.  

Ireland - An ancient society with long time traditions and cheerful green!

The first thing one notices about Ireland is how green it is at every turn. The second thing one notices is that Ireland is an ancient society with castles and old, historic Pubs. Ireland is known for their famous Irish wakes and brewing their own beer and whisky. The land of the movie: "The Quiet Man" and horses. However, be mindful of your manners and please use your magic words. The Irish are full of fun, are quick witted, have easy going conversation, and are cheerful and extremely polite, so please use your best 'Old European' manners (see post from August 12, 2020).  

Ireland is slightly larger than the State of West Virginia. The Capital is Dublin. The annual GDP per capita is $78,500 USD. The Irish are known for their famous "Blacknose" sheep, potatoes, beets, wheat, peat, sandstone, wool, dairy, whisky, beer, investment banks, factories, and their famous Waterford crystal. Average temperatures, even in the Summer, are a chilly and wet, 40-60 degrees Fahrenheit. Save your pennies to purchase a traditional Clifden Aran wool sweater, as you will be wearing it, and you'll keep it for many years! 

Always exchange your currency before leaving for your trip as you'll get a much better rate. This process may take up to three weeks at your local bank. The currency used now in Ireland is the Euro. English is the official language, but Gaelic may be spoken, especially in small town pubs. Brush up on some traditional pub sing along songs as well. You'll fit right in and impress!

St. Patrick is Ireland's patron Saint. Ireland is a majority Catholic country therefore Catholicism unites, but avoid religious and political discussions. Also do not refer to the Irish as "English." There are many lovely tourist sites and Universities, especially in the North. To mention only a few: the infamous Blarney Stone near Cork, the Grand Opera House in Belfast, Mount Stewart, Belfast Castle, Trinity College in Dublin, St. Anne's Cathedral, Titanic Belfast tourist site, and Carrickfergus Castle.  

Dress is casual chic in the big cities, and more casual in the rural areas. Ireland is however, conservative, and ladies, please cover your shoulders if touring a Church, churchyard or historic site. No tube tops or bare arms. No dirty jeans, dirty sneakers or dirty sandals or feet. When traveling, always try to look clean and pressed. Too wet and cold for sandals anyway! Bring a light, fold up travel raincoat with hood, a small fold-up travel umbrella and light rain skimmers or rubbers. You will be glad you did! Also, do not wear loud colors or the color 'Kelly green.' Screams "tacky tourist." 

In ancient, traditional Ireland, shake hands with everyone you are introduced to upon greeting and leaving. Shake firmly twice, then down. Use your warmest eye contact. Smile. Be hospitable. The Irish are easy going and the society is much slower paced. Use first names when invited to do so. "Cead mile failte" ('Kayd MEE-la-FALL-chah') is a common greeting. Please use your magic words: 'Please', 'May I', 'Thank you', and 'You're welcome', lots. No PDA. The Irish are reserved. No loud speaking. Stay away from all hand gestures, especially the "V" 'Peace' gesture. In Ireland it is an obscene gesture. 

Some Irish phrases include: "footpath"(sidewalk), "bill" (the check), "queue" (line), "homely" (pleasant, kind, relaxed), "dither" (slow), "boot" (trunk of a car), and "bonnet" (hood of a car). 

The Irish are the hardest workers ever, but they want it "their way." Hostess gifts include flowers (no red or white) chocolates, wines, and cheeses. Business gifts include pens, coffee table books, ties, paper weights, golf items. Welsh "love spoons" are also traditional. In business, the practical is preferred over the intellectual. Improvisation is preferred over rigidity. Get to know those you are doing business with a bit before getting down to business. The golf course is where much business is done. July and August are when the majority of Europeans go on vacation, so everything is closed. Also, beware of "Tinkers" (gypsies). They can be dangerous. 

Guinness beer is served at room temperature, as is milk at breakfast with your cereal, and most drinks. Only Americans ask for ice. Stout is the Irish National drink. Gentleman, as per tradition, please order your lady, wife, girlfriend or friend who is female, a "1/2 pint", and men order a pint. Women DO NOT stand at the bar and order their own drinks, or carry their own drinks to their table. Gentleman, this is your opportunity to shine!! Always buy your own round of drink and never refuse a drink. 

Family and friends are much more important than material goods. Families live close to each other. The honorable, the humble, the hard working and elders are respected. Decisions are made slowly with relationship building as paramount.  

Traditional Irish foods are: soda bread, fish & chips (fried fish & French fry wedges with vinegar), mixed coddle (boiled bacon & sausages), Irish stew, lamb with vinegar mint crushed leaf sauce, unpretentious vegetables, meat and boiled parsley potatoes with lots of unsalted butter! Orange Marmalade is served with a traditional English breakfast of eggs, sausages, tomatoes, herring and kippers (strong fish).  

High Tea at 5:00pm, (often confused with delicate Afternoon Tea at 3:00-4:00), is a hearty supper. It is a dinner of cold cuts, salad and biscuits or cakes, boiled bacon and cabbage. High Tea, back in the day, was traditionally for miners, who were down in the mines all day and had not eaten, as they had not been up from the deep underground mine. 

The small plate next to your dinner plate is for boiled potatoes. Always eat in the Continental style.

Irish toasts are: "Slainte" (SLAHN-chah) which means 'good luck', and "Lechyd Da" (Yeh-hidday) which means 'good health.' Drinks are Irish Whisky, Irish Coffee, Mist = Whiskey based liquor, Pocheen = moonshine, and is illegal, and 'Black Velvet' which is Guinness + Champagne. Know that the beer is stronger than in the US. The Irish are reserved and do not appreciate loud or drunk behavior. Yes, even women can now give toasts, but don't say "charming" or "quaint" or you will sound like a tacky tourist! 

Tip the maid 3-4 Euros per day, tip the porter 2 Euros per bag. Tip the Concierge 1-2 Euros for great help, Tip the taxi driver 10%. Tip the waiter 10-15% in a big city restaurant (Dublin) if your bill does not have a service charge added. Tipping is not expected in a small town Pub, but is always appreciated. Round your bill up as a tip for Bartenders, and this will also be appreciated as tipping the Bartender is not expected. 

Enjoy green Ireland, its outdoor beauty, and its lovely hospitality!

Canada - The Land of "Peace, Order and Good Government"

Glorious Canada is a lovely multi-cultural, duel-language Country with the famous Canadian Mounted Police, Niagara Falls, the Thousand Islands (1800 islands to be exact), delicious French Quebec bakeries, Victorian architecture, British Colonial cultural traditions and the Toronto Stock Exchange. 

Ottawa is the Capitol of Canada. Total population numbers about 30 million. Montreal with 3 million population, Vancouver with 2 million, and Toronto has a population of approximately 3.5 million. Median Income is $20,000 USD. The currency is the Canadian Dollar. Canada operates on the metric system. The weather is Arctic cold, cold, wet and cold. Celsius is Fahrenheit x 2 + 32. Cars are equipped with engine "block heaters", or you can bring your own extension cord and hair dryer!      

Most Canadians speak British English and French. Surprisingly, household grocery store brands and pharmaceutical products at the "Chemist's" are listed in French and English. In Quebec, 80% of citizens speak French, so best to brush up on a few 'magic words' in French. N'est-ce pas?  

Canada's natural resources include timber, fish, natural gas, petroleum and many minerals. Agricultural products include beef, wheat, eggs, hogs, cattle and milk. Canada is known for its cars and trucks, wood, machinery, electronics and mining. 

Canada prides itself on its low crime rate, however, when traveling, always remember to use your common sense and be careful. Ontario is big city mentality like New York City. Western Canada is like California, and British Colombia is like Seattle, WA. Unpopulated Northern Canada is for the Vikings! Quebec is very French! 

Canadian manners are reserved and very 'Old World' and formal. Use formal British and French names and titles until invited to do so otherwise.  Never embarrass another person. Sense of humor does not translate well in foreign countries. Do not compare Canada to the US. Remove your hat and sunglasses when speaking to someone or being introduced. Do not use hand gestures as most translate into obscene meanings, and keep your hands out of your pockets. Handshaking is 2 firm shakes, then down. Be sure to maintain eye contact and smile. 

Use your French and English 'magic words.' Please = 's'il vous plait', Thank you = 'Merci', You're welcome = 'De rien', Have a nice day = 'Bonjourne.'  To Toast: "A votre sante" (to your health). 

Canadian Holidays: Boxing Day is the day after Christmas, December 26th. St. George's Day is April 23rd. Discovery Day is June 27th. Orangeman's Day is July 10th. Heritage Day is August 2nd. 

Gift Giving for the host: avoid red roses (love) or white flowers (funeral). Any other flowers are fine, as are gourmet chocolates, a nice wine, or good scotch. Corporate gifts include a coffee table book from your home region, food from your home region (for example, Virginia peanuts), Logo gifts, desk set and a fine pen set.

Table manners include Continental style dining, and please use your finest formal table manners. Do not refer to the wait staff as "Garcon" which means "boy." Call the wait staff Monsieur or Mademoiselle. Linger a bit at the table after the meal with a rum, coffee and/or dessert. Take your time as meals are to be enjoyed! You will not be given the check until you ask for it: "L'addition, s'il vous plait." Just as in the UK and most of Europe, a "Service Compris" may be included and should always be listed at the bottom of your check. If in doubt, ask the Captain or the Manager if the service charge (usually 12% - 15%) is included. If the service is excellent, leave 5-10% extra cash tip on the table, or hand it directly to the server on your way out.

Tip the maid $5-$8CA per day. Tip the Taxi driver, tour guide, Spa attendant, Hairdresser and Barman 10% -15%. Not tipping is considered very insulting and rude. Always tip everyone. You will get better service, better tables, better drinks and enjoy your vacation more!   

Hotels may charge a 17% - 20% V.A.T. (Value Added Tax), G.A.S. (Goods & Services) tax, or P.S.T. (Provincial Sales Tax) tax, so be aware. Read the fine print. 

              Remember, never sing "Alouette" as it is considered condescending. 

Valentine's Day can be cruel for some. Be nice.

 

Happy Valentine's Day! Hope you all reach out to the ones you love. Just remember, kids and adults can be cruel. Mean for sport. Behaviors that become habit. Please remember to be kind. 

Style Magazine, Family Style Section, May 2001

Wales "Cymru" The Lushest Land Since The Forest of Arden

 Wales "Cymru" is one of the most lush lands since Shakespeare's "Forest of Arden." 

With a land mass a bit larger than the size of New Jersey, ancient Wales has a burgeoning population of 3.1 million. Wales is known for its grazing grasses, moors, King Arthur & Camelot, the infamous literary "cywydd metre"(elegies & eulogies), the William Morgan 1588 Bible, "The Bard" 1774, the Prince of Wales, Welsh choirs, popular Portmerion pottery, the famous Tintern Abbey 1131, the Battle of Hastings 1066, Cambrian mountains, Pembrokeshire wild horses, many famous Church choirs and glee clubs, and Welsh Rugby.

Famous actors and artists include: Catherine Zeta-Jones, Anthony Hopkins, Richard Burton, Dylan Thomas, and Tom Jones! Movies and TV include "How Green Was My Valley", "Dr. Who", "BBC Sherlock Holmes", "Torchwood" and "Third Star", starring Benedict Cumberbatch. 

Natural resources in Wales are coal, slate, iron, limestone, wool and many metals & minerals. Wales grows barley, oats, dairy, hay, potatoes, turnips, and of course, cows & sheep graze on the vast and lush yet rough grazing grasses. The Capital of Wales is Cardiff which is an ancient and quaint yet sophisticated city, and a cultural & media center. GDP per capita is about $30,000 USD. The weather is cold, foggy and wet. Average temperatures are 40-70 degrees F., so when packing, best to layer.

Dress code is casual chic. For any means of travel, a thin wool Pashmina is worth its weight in gold, as is a light weight travel rain coat with hood. Navy or black is best because it blends into any city scape, can be easily dressed up, and can mix and match with jewel tones or beige. Comfortable black walking shoes and black clothing may be boring but it makes you look thinner for those travel photographs! 

When out and about, please use your 'magic words' ('Thank You", "Please", "May I", and "You're Welcome') and be quiet and reserved. No hand gestures. Don't rub your nose (means 'rub your nose in it"). Don't put your hands in your pockets. Do not eat or drink while walking down a public street, or in a taxi or bus. Eating & drinking in public is considered rude.

Some helpful Welsh catch phrases: Hello = 'S'mae', Good Morning = 'Bore da', Thank You = 'Diolch o gallon', and Goodnight = 'Nosda'. Do NOT say "pants" as these are underpants. Say trousers or slacks. 

Hand shaking is 2 firm shakes, then down. Eye contact is to look someone square in the eyes and smile. Do not stare. Introductions are more 'old world': "How do you do?" and stand. Women extend their hand out first. Welsh demeanor is reserved, quiet, very polite and courteous. Private. 

At the Pub: Men order a "pint." Women order a "half-pint." Over 28 famous Welsh beers available. Study up on which beer you'd like to order!

 Welsh cuisine is famous for Welsh rarebit (don't worry, there is NO rabbit on the rarebit, just cheese), Glamorgan sausage, Bar birth, mutton and lamb stew or 'cawl', Conwy mussels, leeks, Sewin (trout) and samphire (greens), laverbread (Welshman's caviar), and crempogs (cakes). A Century old tradition for the miners, is a half moon shaped pastry consisting of a meal in a pocket called a "Pastie." It is layers of pork or beef, potato, vegetables, onion, and jam at the base. The "Pastie" was made by wives of miners to put in their lunch box and eaten mid-day, as the miners did not come up from the mine until the end of the day. Try one! They are a treat!

Table manners include Continental dining only, using your finest and most formal manners. Tipping is 10-12% as servers are paid a "living wage." Leave an extra 5-10% cash on the table (or hand it to the server) if the service is excellent. If you attend a dinner party, it is tradition that couples do not sit next to each other.

Take registered Taxi's only (Black Cab). It is customary to round up to the nearest GBP (Great British Pound). Tip the Porter 1-2 GBP per bag. Tip the maid 5-10GBP per weekend, 15-25 GBP per week. Tip room service 15%. 

St. David is the Patron Saint of Wales and St. David's Day is March 1st, so many establishments and businesses may be closed. 

Remember: the Welsh are very private and to themselves. Be respectful. 

Post Covid19 Big City Travel Tips and a Top 10 List of International Faux Pas

 Having a bit of Covid "cabin fever?" Once Covid has subsided, here are a few tips to help you travel easily, and please remember: travel with handy wipes, wear your mask, keep your distance and wash your hands often. 

15 Smart Travel Tips: 

1. Drink plenty of water when flying, and avoid too much alcohol and sodas as these will dehydrate you.

2. Ladies: invest in one neutral colored (grey, black, beige or navy) very light, very thin, wool pashmina. I wear mine as a scarf in the winter, on train trips, on my lap covering my legs at the movie theatre and even on flights to warm climates! 

3. When first on the plane set your watch if changing time zones. 

4. Eat when you are hungry. E-mail or call ahead to your hotel and ask what type of coffee makers are in the rooms and bring those coffee pods/bags. Hotels charge a fortune for extras. Also, if your Country allows, pack a bit of half & half pods, travel sized salami, cheeses, olives, nuts & chocolate (the kind that do NOT need to be refrigerated) and crackers (& other foods you may like that do not need to be refrigerated) so you will have a bit to eat if you arrive late and everything is closed. Can't tell y'all how many tapas style dinners we have had this way while traveling! Save your bottled water and nuts from the plane too! Also, bring a few kitchen zip lock bags for leftovers as those "doggie bag" boxes are huge and take up too much room in your mini-fridge. Leftovers and plane food can be easily stored in any hotel room mini-fridge and you will save money and waste nothing!  

5. Get up and walk around and stretch as much as you have opportunity on long train trips and flights. 

6. Be alert always. When entering any room or theatre, look for the exit signs and doors, and remember where they are located.

7. Blend in. Do not be loud or boisterous. Ladies, if an establishment allows you to sit at the bar by yourself, just be mindful. Do not ever leave your drink on the bar to use the restroom, and return to drink the rest of your drink. Please take care and be careful. Do not give out your phone number. Have the gentleman give you his phone number, then you are in control. 

8. Travel lightly. Many people duplicate and triplicate pack. You won't use half the clothes you will pack. No matter how long the trip, pack for 6 days & nights only. Stick to one pair of nice looking, yet comfortable black shoes for the day and 1 dress pair of shoes for evening, and pack black & navy clothing. One jacket. One skirt. One pair of casual and dress pants. One black sweater. A few light jewel toned shells or beige shirts to mix & match will do. Travel websites have washable under garments for ladies and gentlemen that will hand wash & dry overnight! 

9. Use covered luggage tags. 

10. Bring extra copies of your passport, prescriptions & important documents. I store mine inside my makeup case.

11. DO NOT travel with any valuable or sentimental jewelry, engagement rings or watches you cannot live without. If you do, keep them on your person. Don't wear fake bling jewelry either as muggers don't know the difference. Tuck your necklaces IN. Muggers will rip them off your neck & knock you down, even if they are fake. They won't know the difference or care. Ladies: if you must wear rings, turn them around when out on the street. 

12. Seek out a local Pharmacy and go inside & ask for the business card of the pharmacist, usually  available on the pharmacy counter. Ask for a fax and an e-mail incase you need to have your Doctor fax in or e-mail a prescription.   

13. DO NOT wear a "fanny pack." This item in particular screams "Mug me here!" Travel catalogues have reasonably priced belts, shirts, and pants with interior hidden zippered pockets. They have annual sales too so with a bit of planning ahead, you may purchase these items on sale! 

14. Always walk where there are people. If you feel you are in danger, dodge into any building with a doorman, a hotel, or any restaurant. Don't yell "help." Yell "Fire!" People always run towards a fire to help out. 

15. Just use your common sense and don't be where you're not supposed to be when you're not supposed to be there. Gas up your car when reaching your destination. Always travel with a lighter, matches and a flashlight. Lock your car. Lock your door.     

Top 10 list of travel faux pas:

1. Don't assume things outside of America will be the same as within America.

2. If abroad on business, relax, socialize and develop your business relationships a bit first before getting down to business. 

3. Don't compare customs, quality of goods and services or business practices inside the United States to those outside of the United States. Check guide books on local customs and business practices before you travel. 

4. Even though in some countries and cultures (one example is Malaysia), it is proper to ask how much someone makes for a living, don't talk about money. Ever. For any reason. Inside or outside of the US. It's considered by most to be déclassé.  

5. Don't misinterpret body language, such as standing too close, "close talkers", bowing, staring or not smiling. Different cultures have different mores and manners. Know before you go. 

6. Don't fidget with your feet. Don't touch or point with your feet. Don't show the soles of your shoes. Feet and the soles of one's shoes are considered "dirty" or bad luck in many countries. 

7. Watch your hand gestures. Many hand gestures have obscene meanings abroad. Also, keep your hands out of your pockets. Don't stand around with your hands stuck in your pockets. Europeans will wonder what you are doing in there. Pockets are for making change only. Also, don't touch anyone. Don't point with your finger. Don't point with your feet. Best to simply keep your hands at your sides. 

8. Try to dress up a bit. Dress simply and be clean. Don't "go native." Just try to avoid looking like you are cleaning out your garage. No bra straps showing or tube tops. Tuck your shirt in. Clean your shoes. Wash your hair. It is also best to wear covered shoes. No one wants to look at your dirty toes, filthy feet or gross sandals on a plane. If you are late and need to run to your plane or train, tripping on flip flops is not the best way to get anywhere or exit quickly from a building or plane. Remember: Casual chic will admit you  anywhere. Blending in is the best way to go. Black or Navy always works, and you can mix black and navy with either beige shirts or jewel toned blouses. You'll look thinner in black or navy too!  This way, you can pop into the best hotel in the city and use their lovely, clean restrooms, and after, have an ice cream or drink in their cafe or bar. You'll look nice and fit in anywhere, because half the fun in traveling is treating yourself and enjoying your trip to the fullest.  

9. Always veer towards the formal. Always use proper and correct titles and surnames until invited to do otherwise, especially with elders. 

10. Always follow the appropriate dining etiquette and customs. In Europe, and especially in Germany, you will be considered dishonest and hiding something if you eat in the American style and place your hands in your lap. Eat in the Continental style! Even today, they will think you "have something up your sleeve."   In many countries, it is considered crass, or strange, to eat while walking down a public street or drink your coffee while riding in a car. As a general rule, do not chew gum in public. Do not decline food or drink from your host. Never show displeasure with a particular food or drink you may not like.  

Remember to use your magic words ("please", "thank you", "may I" and "you're welcome") when traveling and save your change all year so that you may tip often & generously. You will receive better service, better tables, better seats, better travel! 

    

International Protocol Quiz - Do You Think You Are Ready?

Do you think you are ready for high society and a global world? Traveled internationally? Starting a new job in Washington, DC? Know all about your international manners, etiquette and Protocols?  

Alrighty then. Let's test your knowledge! 

1. Q: How do I address the President of the United States at a White House function when introduced?

    A: Mr. President or Sir. The President's last name is NEVER used when addressing him personally. 

2. Q: How do I address a US Ambassador when introduced? 

    A: Mr. Ambassador, Excellency or Sir/Madam.

3. Q: What gifts are appropriate for a corporate host in Germany?

    A: Gifts are given at the end of the negotiations. They should not be Logo gifts, extravagant gifts or personal gifts (soaps, perfume or jewelry), as it may embarrass the Host. An American made fine pen or desk set is nice. Good Scotch or gourmet chocolates are appropriate as well. A bouquet of flowers in an uneven number (but NOT 13) are great, however, DO NOT give red flowers (love) or white flowers, in particular, chrysanthemums or calla lillies (funerals).  

4. Q: Why is the American custom of crossing your legs at the knee frowned upon in Europe, Asia and the Middle East?

    A: In Europe, crossing one's legs at the knee is considered bad breeding, and in Asia and the Middle East, crossing one's legs at the knee and the ankles, thus showing the sole of one's shoe, is considered to be dirty and an insult to your Host.

5. Q: Why should one be very careful in outwardly admiring possessions belonging to Middle Eastern clients/hosts/hostesses?

   A:  Tradition in the Arab culture is to make a gift something that is admired by a new friend. If you verbally admire something, your Host will give it to you! As well, you will be expected to reciprocate in kind. 

6. Q: What gift should NOT be given in Japan because it signifies death? 

    A: A clock. Signifies time ticking forward to death!

7. Q: Why should you never give knives, sharp objects or scissors for a wedding, Christmas, or even a Birthday, even if you place a 'lucky penny' inside your gift? 

    A; In many cultures, including older generations in America, the superstition signifies bad luck and/or signifies death in giving such potentially dangerous items.

8.  Q: Gentlemen, should you all stand up at the conference table when a woman executive exits or enters? 

    A; Sorry, but the answer is NO. Women executives may appreciate the occasional chair pulled out for them or the door held for them (especially those heavy glass doors) but gentlemen rising when a woman executive exits or enters the conference room is not necessary any longer, as women executives are considered equals in the board room. Interestingly, the host traditionally enters the restaurant first in Europe as it gives them a chance to introduce themselves to the Maitre'd, check to make sure the seating for their party is nice (not near the kitchen or bathroom), direct to whom the check will be delivered, etc. 

9. Q: Do grade school children in Europe greet each other by shaking hands on the play ground? 

    A: Yes they do! This tradition is why handshaking is prevalent in Europe. 

10.  Q: At a business dinner, does the most important, oldest, honored, and/or highest ranking person still sit to the right of the host and the 2nd most important person sit to the left of the host? 

       A: Yes. Except Korea. Korean etiquette places the most important person in the middle of the table, and facing the door (which is where the power in any room is located), and is superstition to face the door because you can see who is coming and going. 

11. Q: Which countries use the metric system? 

      A: Every country except the USA, Myanmar and Liberia! Thank you Thomas Jefferson!

12. Q: Why should one eat in the Continental Style (wrists above the table at all times) while in the UK, Europe, and especially in Germany?

      A: Upon the popularization of tableware in the 15th Century, when sitting at the King's table, bad men placed knives up their sleeves and could potentially stab their King, or others in power. Showing one has "nothing up your sleeve" is a matter of trust in these societies, even today. If you place your hands or even one hand in your lap at any time, people around you will think you are hiding something, therefore are dishonest.

13. Q: What flower in France is a funeral flower, so should never be given as a gift?

      A: Chrysanthemums. Any color, especially white. 

14. Q: Should you tip in the UK, New Zealand, Canada?

       A: Tipping is not expected for normal services in restaurants and pubs, as servers are paid a living wage. Also, an approximate 20% V.A.T. tax or approximate 12.5% consumer tax may be added to all purchases of goods and services. Check the laws with the concierge at your hotel or the Maitre'd in your local restaurant. Know if this charge is to be listed on the bill before dining out and what to expect before going out. 

15. Q: What are some gift giving guidelines in China?

       A: During a final negotiation, gifts may be exchanged. Wrap the gifts nicely in quality paper once inside China  (once through Customs). Give a gift to each person on the negotiation team, otherwise you will "lose face." Do not give personal or intimate gifts such as soaps, perfume or jewelry (reserved for couples). Acceptable gifts include: Logo gifts from your Country, records, tapes, stamps, sports equipment, coffee table books from your home region, food specialties from your home region (for example: Virginia peanuts), fine chocolates, or a fine desk set. Check what foods are allowed into the Country before departing. Do not be surprised if the gifts will not be opened in front of you.  

16. Q: In Germany, should you refer to someone as "Reverend Doctor Schaefer, or Mrs. Doctor Baker?"

     A: Yes! German titles are very important and used in excess! Always use all titles and honorifics when addressing a business contact. 

17. Q: When doing business in Mexico, Latin America, southern Europe, India or China, should you, as an American, get 'right down to business?' 

       A: No. First, 'Old World' niceties must be observed. Take your time. Tour the local attractions. Have lunch or dinner with your host. Make new friends. No business yet. Enjoy your afternoon or evening. 

18. Q: When offered refreshments before a business meeting with your Middle Eastern host, should you accept?  

      A: Yes, absolutely. If you refuse refreshments or coffee, you are insulting your host. Also, do not ask about the spouse and children, do not cross your legs when you sit down to have your refreshments, and do not accept your refreshments with your left hand, as it is used for toileting. 

19. Q: When walking down the street with a man, should the woman place herself on the outside of the sidewalk or place herself on the inside of the sidewalk?

      A: Both. In America, the custom is to place the man on the outside of the sidewalk. In European countries, the tradition is to place the man on the LEFT of the woman, which places the woman on the inside and outside of the sidewalk depending on which direction you are headed.  

20. Q: When in many foreign countries, can I use the "victory" or "peace" hand gesture, and can I lightly slap someone on the back or usher a woman into a room by touching her lightly on the shoulder?

     A: NO. Just say no to all hand gestures as most have obscene meanings abroad and NEVER touch the Queen, including on the shoulder ushering her into dinner, and don't touch any other woman.

Travel safely and enjoy yourself, but always remember you are not in America but are representing Americans!