tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-63139456146511930202024-03-13T03:24:19.039-07:00Better EtiquetteTopical Etiquette Tips, Helpful Household Hints, International Travel Tips, Dine Like a Diplomat,
20 Years of 20 questions, A Tale in 12 Tweets. Enjoy!Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.comBlogger297125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-20428772597765162392022-04-19T17:20:00.002-07:002022-04-19T17:22:46.122-07:00Chile - South America's Switzerland-esque West Coast <p>Relaxed Chile is a diverse landscape from the famous Parque Garden Zoo and railway, to the stunning Torres Del Paine National Park, the amazing Valle de la Luna and the Atacama Desert. Proclaimed independent from Spain in 1810, Chile still practices Old European Manners (see post from August 12, 2020). As well, chic Chile has excellent wines and seafood. Although Easter Island is 3,500 miles away, it is a big attraction from Chile. </p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>The beautiful Republic of Chile is a bit larger than Texas with a total population of 14.5 Million. The Capital is Santiago with a population of 5.5 Million. Other large cities include Valparaiso and Concepcion with populations of 300,000 each. Currency is the Chilean Peso. 1 Peso = 100 Centavos. Median income is $5,680.00. All citizens are required to vote by law. </li><li>Average temperatures are varied from the subtropical to four seasons. Best to layer your clothes. </li><li>Natural resources include fruit, fish & minerals include copper, iron, steel, timber, pulp, paper, and cement. You will be judged by where you stay in Chile, so stay in a top notch hotel. </li><li>Famous Authors and Poets include Nobel Prize winner Gabriels Mistral in 1945, and Nobel Prize winner for Literature, Pablo Neruda, in 1971. School in Chile is mandatory from age 6-14. Languages include Spanish (Castillano), German, Italian and English. Literacy rate is 95%.</li><li>Sports include "Futbol" (soccer) and dances include the Tango, Cumbia and traditional Waltz.</li><li>Ethnicity includes Mapuche (largest group of South American Indians) and European. </li><li>Dress code is casual chic and clean. Black clothes and shoes in the cities are the best for blending. Layer as the weather varies greatly per location. Do not wear shorts in cities. Only wear shorts at the beach on your vacation. Gentleman wear slacks at night. </li><li>Family is the primary structure of Chilean society. Respect and courtesy within the family unit are of the upmost importance. Kindness is valued. Hard work to help the family is valued as well. Never criticize or embarrass anyone in public, even if it is in jest. Humor rarely translates.</li><li>expect to be interrupted in conversation. It's the Chilean way! It shows interest! </li><li>When smoking, offer a cigarette to everyone. Never refer to anyone as "Mestizo." It's rude.</li><li>Cover your mouth when coughing, yawning or sneezing. Then, immediately excuse yourself and go wash your hands. Stay away from all hand gestures. Often they translate as obscene. </li><li>Do shake hands. A hug and 1 kiss on a cheek among friends is acceptable. Greet the head of the household first. Stand for all introductions. Formal titles are important. Use them until invited to do otherwise. Chileans are close talkers. Do NOT back up. Direct eye contact is important. Smile, be very polite and positive. Never talk about politics or religion. One can ask about occupation, but do not mention salary and never talk about money. </li><li>Meals are meant to be enjoyed with family and friends. Eat Continental style only. Never touch your food with your fingers including grapes, strawberries or french fries! Never lick your fingers either as both are considered not only rude but vulgar. </li><li>Summon the wait staff by raising your hand. Never bacon the wait staff with your index finger. Considered rude. Never place your hands on your lap which is why you must eat in the Continental style with your wrists above the table to show you have nothing "up your sleeve." No separate checks. One must ask for the check. Summon the wait staff by raising your whole hand. Stay a bit after the meal as it shows you are enjoying your meal and time at the restaurant, maybe with a rum or coffee, and enjoy. Leave small cash on the table as well as a 10-12% tip. </li><li>Lunch is the main meal of the day from 1:00-3:00pm. Tea time is 5:00-6:00. Dinner is light and late from 8:00-10:00pm. Taste everything that is served. Don't talk with food in your mouth.</li><li>Drink bottled water only. Always travel with pink chewable pills to coat your stomach before each meal. Vacations are fun but foreign foods you are not accustomed to can be challenging. BBQ's are very popular! Arrive 30 minutes late for social parties. </li><li>Tip the wait staff 10-12%, It's tradition to leave a bit of cash on the table after the meal, and coffee. Tip the Porter $2 per bag. Tip the Maid $4-5 per day. Don't tip the Taxi driver, but do round up the fare to the nearest dollar and let them keep the change. Tip the Concierge $20. Do NOT bribe service people. </li><li>Chilean cuisine includes: "Empanadas de Horno" = baked turnovers filled with meat. "Asados" = Grilled Beef. "Pastel de Choclo = meal of beef, chicken, onions, corn, eggs and spices. "Cazuela de Ave" = a pot pie of chicken in broth with vegetables & potatoes. First drink the broth, then eat the meat and vegetables. "Sopaipillas" = Deep fried pumpkin fritters. "Humitas" = flat corn pancake stuffed with corn paste. </li><li>The Chilean culture is "machismo." Men stare at women. It is common flattery. Ignore it and keep walking. Respect for women is traditional, but, do NOT sit at a bar alone, and do NOT walk alone at night. Don't bring or wear expensive jewelry, purses or luggage. Pick pockets are active at the airport, in crowded spaces and public transport. Be aware. Smog and smoke are common place in Santiago. Take a mask. </li></ul><div style="text-align: center;"><i><u>Read the book: "House of Spirits" by Isabel Allende</u></i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i><u>It is a book showcasing Chilean culture and traditions.</u></i></div>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-89775684478770785602022-02-23T17:11:00.001-08:002022-02-23T17:19:40.360-08:00Brazil - a costal Lusophone country famous for the infamous, the "Torpedo" and the traffic. <p> Colonized by Portugal, not Spain, The Republica Federativa do Brasil, a Lusophone country, (Portuguese speaking), is where men might ask for a date while stuck in traffic & get one! Brazil is where Supermodels, fancy beachfront hotels & beautiful people Samba in style. Brazilians are a traditional "Old European Society" (see post from August 12, 2020) who adhere to these manners and influences. </p><p>A union of 26 States, Brazil is the size of the United States. They are a country of 200 million people. 90% of the population lives on 10% of the costal land. The Capital, Brazilia, has a population of 4.7 Million, Sao Paulo = 46 Million, & Rio de Janeiro, 17.5 Million. Don't refer to Brazilians as "Latins", but rather "Lusophones." Like many European countries, it is common for three generations of family to all live together, as family is the #1 priority. School is mandatory until age 14, with an 82% national literacy rate.</p><p>Brazil is the 10th largest economy in the world, however, income distribution in Brazil is extremely uneven. One third of Brazilians live under the poverty line. GDP is $8,727.00 USD. The currency is the Real (pronounced 'Ray-owl'). Portuguese is the official language. Spanish is understood but not spoken. </p><p>Brazil is the world's largest producer of oranges. They are known for their coffee, cocoa, soy beans, bananas, beef, rice, cattle, pork, sugar, rubber, and corn. Their industry is cars, textiles, minerals, ship building, paper, wood products, and pharmaceuticals. </p><p>Remember, Brazil's seasons are reversed. Brazil is a breezy tropical climate, so wear your bug spray always, a hat, and mind the sun. Travel websites have anti-mosquito bandanas and clothing. They also have clothing with hidden pockets and zippers to guard against pick-pockets. Wait for a sale and buy!</p><p>It is said there are more Italians in Brazil than Venice. The same is true for the multitudes of Lebanese in Sao Paulo. A class system society still exists & men comment and stare. Keep walking. </p><p>"Carnival" is the week before Ash Wednesday. Don't plan on doing any business during Carnivale week or on Ash Wednesday. The entire country is either "hung over" or repenting! </p><p>Some shops & businesses close from 12-2, as lunch is the main meal of the day. Most shops are open 6 days a week from 9:00 to 6:30, or later. Shops are closed on Sundays, but a few food markets may be open. Plan accordingly. Brazilians love to bargain too! Enjoy.</p><p>Dress code is feminine sexy chic for women with clean hair & manicured nails & toes. City chic for men, and long pants at night. Be sure to have clean shoes. Jeans must be clean & pressed. Do not wear green and yellow together (flag colors). Dressing up a bit when traveling means you can go anywhere!</p><p>The #1 sport is soccer "Pele." Hang gliding is popular too. Games are friendly, warm & fun. Enjoy!</p><p>The ethnic make up of Brazil is extremely diverse: 47% White European "Brancos", 22% Mulatto, 12% Mestizo, 11% Black African, 150,000 Native American, and 1.1% Asian/Japanese. </p><p>The "thumb's up" hand gesture is rude. The "Ok" gesture is acceptable. Rubbing your hands together means: "doesn't matter", but when abroad anywhere, it is probably better to stay away from all hand gestures all together! </p><p>In meeting, take time to greet and say goodbye to everyone. Women kiss twice: once on each cheek if married, and three times if single. Brazilians maintain eye contact, stand & talk close & are touchy feely.</p><p>Good conversation includes Brazil's famous soccer team "futebol" and beautiful beaches. Don't mention politics, religion, poverty or rival Argentina. Never ask someone's age, salary or talk about money.</p><p>"Cafezinho" is Brazil's famous very strong coffee. All dining is in the Continental style. Dinner is late, from 8:00 - 10:00 pm. Wash your hands before eating. Also, take 2 pepto chews before eating. Never pick your teeth in public. Never touch your food with your hands, even grapes. It is tradition to ask someone if they would like drinks. </p><p>The waiter is "Garcon." Ask for your check "A costa pro favor." Never eat and leave. Meals are to be enjoyed with friends and family. Hang out at least 1/2 an hour after dessert and enjoy. </p><p>"Mate" or "Yerba Mate" (chimarrao) = a type of tea brewed from dried evergreen shrub leaves or Holly tree leaves. Cold Mate is common on Brazil's beaches. </p><p>Breakfast is mostly Continental with fruit & "Cafe com Leite" (coffee with milk). Lunch is the main meal of the day, between 12-2. Brazil's national dish is "Feijoada" (beef, pork, sausage, tongue). Snacks may be served at 4:00pm, and consist of cookies, cakes, beverages and "Pao de Queijo." </p><p>"Bife a cavalo com fritas" = meat with eggs & french fries. ""Betides" = sweet fruit beverage made with rum. "Americano" = ham, cheese, lettuce, tomato & fried eggs in a sandwich. "Churrasco" = charcoal broiled meats. "Aguardiente" = Brandy like drink made from sugarcane. "Pudim" = a flan dessert. </p><p>A note from an admirer in a restaurant is called a "Torpedo." Be cordial but be aware. Always drink bottled water. Never eat uncooked or unpeeled food. Always take pepto chews before each meal. Wear mosquito repellent always. Travel websites have mosquito repellent clothing. Buy on sale!</p><p>Tip the Taxi driver 10%. Tip the Porter $2 per bag. Tip the Maid $4 per day. Tip the waiter 5% cash at the end of the meal (hand it to him in person) because there will be a 10% Service charge on the bill. </p><p>Carry your Passport & immigration permit always. Travel websites have annual sales on clothing with hidden pockets. Have patience in Brazil. You will always be in a line. Be aware of pick pockets, and especially at the airport. Don't wear a watch or wear jewelry on the outside of your clothes. </p><p>As of 1997, all Brazilian citizens are organ donors after death. Brazil is 73% Catholic, 20% Protestant, and the African Voodoo "Macumba" service on Friday night is not uncommon. </p><p>Gift giving includes: gourmet chocolates, fine wines, champagne, aged Scotch, and products from the USA. For children, give hard candies, soccer themed gifts (T-shirts) and NBA hats. Very expensive gifts may be interpreted as bribes. Nice gift wrapping will be appreciated. Always open the gift in front of the giver. Send flowers before visiting a home for dinner. No purple flowers (funeral color). </p><p><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><u><b>On New Year's Eve, locals throw lipstick, flowers and compact mirrors into the sea to celebrate the Patron Saint of Rivers and Sea named Yemanja (Lemanja). It's called: </b></u></i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><u><b>"Jumping 7 Waves."</b></u></i></p><p><br /></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-59756290941210868282021-11-18T17:09:00.003-08:002021-11-20T13:03:25.795-08:00Bolivia - The Land of Pasankhalla & Pacena <p> Popcorn "Pasankhalla" was originated in Bolivia. They also have many well known varieties of potatoes, the main staple of the Bolivian diet farmed by farmers called "Campesinos." Pacena is their famous beer. Spicy Salsa and BBQ are also common. Although voting is mandatory, and begins at 18, which is progressive, Bolivians adhere to Old European Manners (see post from August 12, 2020), so be sure to be very polite and use your magic words. </p><p>Bolivia is a large country in central South America the size of Texas and California combined! It has 4 different geographical areas. Altiplano is in the West. It's between the Andes & is a very high elevation where the temperatures are cold and dry. Yungas is in the North East which has a medium elevation. The Valles Region is in the South where there are hills and valleys. Oriente is in the lowlands where the grass lands are and tropical forests. So, it's best to layer! A thin, wool pashmina will be perfect! </p><p>Population in Bolivia is 8 million, half of which is rural. Santa Cruz is 625K. Sucre is the Capital, but there are many government offices and international travelers in La Paz. GDP is $784USD per capita. Natural resources include Coca, sugarcane, coffee, soybeans and corn. Bolivians are known for their cattle, goats, sheep, petroleum, NG, tin, zinc, gold, iron, silver, timber and fish.</p><p>Language is Spanish & local Indian dialects. DO NOT wear traditional Indian clothing. Insulting. Ethnicity is multi-cultural, including 30% Mestizo, 30% Quechua, 25% Aymara, 15% European. Bolivia is a 95% Catholic country with indigenous beliefs and traditions. Multi-generations live together. Family is a #1 priority. Elders are revered. Women are traditionally homemakers. Dress is conservative. </p><p>Waiving your index finger means "No." Street vendors and Taxi Drivers use the "so-so" hand gesture, which also means "No." The "fig" hand gesture is rude. Best to stay away from all hand gestures. </p><p>Never eat while walking down a public street. Cover your mouth when yawning. Never whisper (rude) but keep your voice low. Never sit on a desk, table or ledge (rude). Slumping is rude. Avoid "Carnival" week to do business. Always carry your Passport. Sporting goods stores have clothing with hidden pockets. Watch for their sales! Drink bottled water only & carry chewable pepto bismol pills.</p><p>Education is valued, but only half of children finish 8th Grade. Literacy is 80%. Bolivians are close talkers. Eye contact is important. Bolivians are kind, gentle and concerned for the general welfare of others. Social identity is predicated upon one's family history and reputation.</p><p>Sports is a popular conversational topic. Do not talk about politics or religion. Do not praise Chile, Brazil or Paraguay (lost land in wars). Blend into the crowd as there are isolated terrorist attacks. </p><p>High altitude and the hot sun can effect your balance and you can get dehydrated without realizing it. Carry a hat everywhere! Also, be very careful about your alcohol consumption. Chewing Coca leaves can help with altitude sickness. Coca leaves can also be drunk in tea. </p><p>Eat in the Continental style only. Eat everything on your plate. Never touch your food with your hands. Complimenting food means you want more. Don't leave the table until everyone is finished. Breakfast is Continental: coffee, tea, bread & cheese. Lunch is the main meal, consisting of soup and a hot entree. This heavy lunch is why many stores are closed between Noon and 2:00pm. Most people go home for lunch and a nap (alnuerzo de hora). Tea and cakes are served at 4:00pm, and dinner is served late at 9:00pm. </p><p>Traditional foods include: Quinoa (grain eaten by the poor), Huminta (tamales), Saltena (meat or chicken pie with potatoes, olives & raisins), Chuno (freeze dried potatoes added to soup & side dishes), Pasankhalla (popcorn, and San Pedro (white grape liquor). </p><p>Friday nights are for men to go out and relax. Men are "Machismo." Women are secondary. </p><p>Spanish "Magic Words" include: Yes = Si, No = No, Good Morning = Buenos dias, Good Evening = Buenos Noches, Hello = Hola, Goodbye = Adios, Please = Por favor. Thank you = Gracias, You're welcome = De Nada, I'm sorry = Lo Siento, Excuse me = Perdoneme, How are you = Como eta usted.</p><p>Gift Giving: pen & pencil sets, Fine Art from the US, Company logo gifts, coffee table books from your home region, fine wine or Whisky, gourmet chocolates, and hard candies for children. DO NOT give yellow or purple flowers, as these are funeral flowers. Open your gifts immediately. </p><p>Bolivian currency is the Boliviano. It is divided into 100 Centavos. Always exchange your money before you leave with your local bank. This process takes about 3 weeks. Never exchange your money at an airport (rip off) or on the street (dangerous & you don't know what you are getting).</p><p>Tip the Porter $2 USD per bag. Tip the wait staff a small extra cash tip traditionally left on the table as a 10% service charge is included in the bill, and they are now paid a living wage. With a Taxi, ALWAYS ask what the price will be BEFORE entering the car. Tip the Maid $4 USD per day. </p><p><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b><i>Bolivians are warm, friendly people who appreciate you for who you are, </i></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b><i>not for what you have. </i></b></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-85463966868055485822021-10-20T11:51:00.001-07:002021-10-20T12:08:15.934-07:00The Medieval Kingdom of Belgium - Head of the EU and NATO<p>As well as their famous chocolates, did you know Renaissance architecture abounds in Old World Belgium? This small Kingdom, a bit larger than the State of Maryland, has 3 distinct regions: the Dutch-speaking Flanders Region, which used to be thought as the language of servants, French-speaking Wallonia Southern "High Court" Region and German-speaking community in the East. Chic Luxembourg is famous for its global banking. Belgians speak 3-4 languages well. Geographically, it is located around many major rivers. So, please use your best "European Old World Manners" (see post from August 12, 2020)</p><p>The Capital of this densely populated hereditary yet Federal Parliamentary Constitutional Monarchy is Brussels with a population of 1 million. Belgium has a population of 11.5 million. GDP is $50,115 per capita. </p><p>Average temperatures are a mild 32-73 Degrees Fahrenheit. Winters can be foggy & Summers are cool. Best to layer. A fine, thin wool Pashmina is worth its weight in gold, as is a pocket, foldable travel umbrella. Currency is the Euro. Natural Resources are coal, NG, marble, slate, and sandstone.</p><p>Belgians are known for working hard and playing hard. They are socially reserved and aloof until you get to know them a bit. Family life is multi-generational and strong. </p><p>90% of Belgians are Roman Catholic, so don't discuss religion, money, politics or personal matters. </p><p>Language for Business is English. Dress is conservative. Women hold their hands out first for handshaking, go first with introductions and stand for introductions. Repeat your name when being introduced. Use formal last names and proper titles until invited to use first names. Shake hands with everyone upon greeting and departing. Be punctual. Gentlemen, stand up when a woman enters the room or gets up from the table. Accept a drink offered by your host. </p><p>Dress is casual chic. When traveling, always look clean and pressed. No bra straps showing or halter tops. No dirty sandals or dirty feet. No shorts in the evenings. Speak softly. Fitting in is key. Do not blow your nose, pick your teeth or scratch your head in public. Rude! </p><p>Toasts: "A Votre Sante" (French for: To your health), and "Op uw rezoned head" (Dutch for: To your health). Brussels has more 5 star restaurants than anywhere else in Europe, other than in France. </p><p>Eat in the Continental Style only. Keep your wrists onto of the table (still a trust issue dating back to the 14th Century when those wanting to kill the King hid knives up their sleeves at the dinner table). The fish course will have fish knife and fork. To beckon a waiter, raise your hand and make eye contact. </p><p>Table tipping is not required as a 15% charge is added to your bill. It is tradition to leave a bit of extra cash on the table for great service, or you may want to hand it directly to the server. Finish all the food on your plate. The female guest of honor will be seated next to the host. Relax and have nice conversation for an hour after your meal ends with a coffee or rum. Meals are to be enjoyed! Tip the Maid 3 Euros per day. Tip the Porter 2 Euros per bag. Tip the Restroom Usher 2 Euros. </p><p>Breakfast "Petite Dejeuner" is Continental. Lunch "Dejuener" is cold cuts, sandwiches, fruit, and rolls. Dinner "Diner" is a multi-course meal: appetizer, soup, fish, sherbet (cleanses the pallet) main course (meat), salad last, then dessert, which may be fruit and cheese. Coffee is served AFTER dessert and may be in a living or sitting room, or out on a nice porch, and gentlemen may smoke cigars. </p><p>Local cuisine includes mussels, eels, pork, lamb stew, beef cooked in beer, rabbit cooked in wine, stewed chicken, game, fish, cheese and fruit. </p><p>The "W. C." is the restroom: "Dames" (F) and "Hommes" (M). Hot water = "Chaude." Cold = "Froide." Be careful, as these spigots may be reversed (hot on the right and cold on the left). </p><p>Gift Giving includes: famous Belgian chocolates, local coffee table books from your home region, fine Scotch, and lovely flowers (not chrysanthemums - funeral flowers). Do not give extravagant gifts. Could be considered a bribe. Do not give personal gifts (bath products or perfume). These gifts are for lovers and family only. </p><p><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b><i>"Vinkensport" is an old Flanders game played to see how many songs </i></b></p><p style="text-align: center;"><b><i>a caged Finch </i><i>can sing in an hour.</i></b></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-42172646750516921342021-09-16T14:41:00.005-07:002021-09-16T14:51:12.053-07:00Australia - Independent and Casual, with 3 Time Zones!<p> In 1770, Captain James Cook named Australia "The New South Wales." It's the world's largest Island. A vast and wild land. Australia has 3 time zones. There is no sales tax. Gold was discovered in Australia in 1852. They also have 600+ fine wines, a source of national pride. Many of these wineries are located in the popular Barossa Vally and make great Hostess gifts! Even with Australia's Western style economy, it's surprisingly an "Old World European" society (see post from August 12, 2020), where respect is based on your achievements, not on who your family is, or your educational level. Please be sure to use your best Old European Manners and do not compare Australians to the British. </p><p>Australia is the 6th largest country in the world, and is 3 million square miles with a population of 19 million. 85% of the population lives in urban cities. Melbourne has a population of 3.5M, Sydney 3.7M, Brisbane 1.4M, Perth 1.25M, and 330,000 live in Canberra. GDP is $23,600 USD per capita.</p><p>As a British Colony, Australia is a constitutional monarchy, with Queen Elizabeth II currently as Sovereign, but the head of the government is the Prime Minister.</p><p> Natural resources include: coal, copper, iron, lead, zinc, tin, uranium, crude oil, NG, and gold! Australia is the #1 producer of wool in the world. They are known for their delicious meats, sugar, fine wines, fruit and "shrimp on the barbie." </p><p>Although Australians have an independent attitude, in conversation, don't argue, as it is considered rude. Stay away from all hand gestures, especially the "thumb's up" gesture, as it is considered to be obscene. Keep your hands out of your pockets other than to make change. Europeans wonder what you are doing in there! Also, speak quietly. Do not be loud or boisterous. Do not get drunk at the Pub. Rude! </p><p>Weather is tropical and dry. The sun is intense! Wear sunscreen, UV clothing & always wear a hat. Australia's beautiful & many beaches are marked "Family" & "Topless." Always pay attention to the flags on the beach and ALWAYS swim within those boundaries. Mind the beach where you pick to swim. Waters can have crocks, sharks and stingers. Mind the tides which can change very quickly and become dangerous rip tides. Do Not litter on any beach. Speaking of wild life, be very careful around kangaroo's and Koala's. They are, after all, wild animals. Never, ever hike alone. </p><p>The multi-cultural ethnic make up of Australia is: 25% Australian, 15.8% Aboriginal, 26% British, 3.3% Italian, 7.5% Irish, 6.4% Scotish, 3.1% Chinese and 2% each Indian, Dutch, Greek and New Zealander. </p><p>Religion is reported to be 26% Roman Catholic, 13% Anglican, Protestant 23%, Hindu 2%, Muslim 2.6% and 30% unspecified. While more diversified than in the past, best not to talk about religion. </p><p>Dress is smart casual. Look pressed & tucked in, not sloppy with dirty shoes. When out in the evenings, Ladies, please, no bra straps showing or tube tops. Gentlemen, please wear long pants & collared shirts. </p><p>Popular Sports include Cricket, soccer, surfing "Footy" (Australian rules football) & Rugby. Australians have a great sense of humor, are adventuresome, have strong opinions, so always be a good sport. They are family oriented. Friendly. Communication is direct, but don't shout. NEVER wink at a woman.</p><p>Hand shaking is 2 firm shakes, then down. A woman offers her hand first. Women "Air kiss." Use formal names until invited to do otherwise. Conveniently, "Ms." is preferred over Miss or Mrs. </p><p>Cover your mouth when yawning. Women DO NOT stand at the Bar. Gentlemen, this is your time to shine. Order your women friends a "1/2 Pint" at the Bar, and bring it to them at your table. Men can order "A Pint." Scotch Whisky is popular. Use quiet hand gestures to summon a waiter. </p><p>English Breakfast of sausage, bacon, ham, tomato, egg, toast & jam, is traditional and is served between 7:30am-8:30am. Continental breakfast is later and popular too. "Elevensees" tea is 10:30am-11:00am. Lunch is between 12:00-2:00. Afternoon Tea is 4:00-5:00. Dinner is 6:00pm-8:00pm. Eat in the Continental style only. Don't say: "I'm stuffed" after a meal. This means you are pregnant.</p><p>Tipping is not widespread. Wait staff are paid a living wage. Tip the waiter 10% if the service is excellent. Enjoy Australia's varied ethnic cuisine and famous seafood, "John Dory" local fish, rock oysters and Victorian "rabbis" (like lobster), "carpetbagger steak" (beef stuffed with oysters & lamb). Try "Veggiemite" but NOT with jelly. "White coffee" is coffee with milk. </p><p>Toasts are "Bottoms Up"and "Cheers." Do not drink a toast to yourself, but rather smile and sit quietly. Do visit a Pub, but don't talk too much or too loud, and don't brag. Also important to NOT drink too much. This behavior is considered unacceptable and rude. </p><p>When taking a Taxi, sit in the front seat and round up the tip for the driver. Tip the Maid $4 per day. Tip the Porter $2 per bag. If you ride the bus, when exiting, thank the bus driver. </p><p>Currency is the Australian dollar, with the same denomination as the American dollar. Always exchange your money before you leave. Takes about 3 weeks at your local bank. Never exchange money with a street vendor. You don't know if they are legitimate and/or you will get a worse rate of exchange.</p><p>Say "Koala's" instead of Koala Bears." Do not imitate "G-Day." Considered rude. Say Good Day instead. Also, don't discuss the Kangaroo "Chew the Rho" as it's a controversial delicacy.</p><p>"Cutting down the tall poppy" is an expression used to describe those persons who, for no particular reason but jealousy, put down others for their successes or achievements. </p><p>Gift Giving includes: fresh flowers, fine chocolates, coffee table books or specialty foods from your home region (i.e. Virginia peanuts), and crafts.</p><p><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Remember: Treat everyone as equals. Don't compare Australians to the British. </b></i></p><p> </p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-46729147381250095852021-07-07T16:25:00.006-07:002021-07-07T16:30:25.272-07:00Yes, "Thank You" notes even work up in the sky! <p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ls79iRM42o8/YOY3MdSYNxI/AAAAAAAABGM/H4JrCeELRXUZEFNSXYw2r6h7H76iwKCawCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/THank%2Byou%2Bnote%2Bdelta.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1319" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Ls79iRM42o8/YOY3MdSYNxI/AAAAAAAABGM/H4JrCeELRXUZEFNSXYw2r6h7H76iwKCawCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/THank%2Byou%2Bnote%2Bdelta.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /> WOW! Yes, even a "Thank You" note on an airplane is effective, and nice! Well done flight crew! <p></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-81769358600341526922021-07-07T15:46:00.003-07:002021-08-13T15:03:10.204-07:00Argentina - A Silver Land of Horses, Leather Saddles and "Good Air"<p style="text-align: center;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eXv9qhRuwAE/YRbsB78E8SI/AAAAAAAABIc/-3RVUZayGTkL-XA1mHKdYWcVq8XMYnEygCLcBGAsYHQ/s1676/IMG_0552.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1676" data-original-width="1224" height="295" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-eXv9qhRuwAE/YRbsB78E8SI/AAAAAAAABIc/-3RVUZayGTkL-XA1mHKdYWcVq8XMYnEygCLcBGAsYHQ/w234-h295/IMG_0552.jpg" width="234" /></a></div><br /> <p></p><p>Argentina, meaning "silver" is its own country in South America. It is said: "Argentines are a nation of Italians who speak Spanish and think they are British living in Paris." Argentina has had 2 female Presidents. They invented Radio Broadcasting and continue to have the largest film industry in the Spanish speaking world. </p><p>Argentina is the size of the USA. It is also the second largest South American country. The sea region is the lowest at 138 feet below sea level. Argentina's Capital of 12 million people is Buenos Aires, meaning "good air" and Buenos Aires is modeled after Paris, France! Argentina's total population is 34 million. The proper name for citizens there is "Argentines", not the adjective "argentine." Residents of Buenos Aires are referred to as "Portenos." Also, Argentina is an Old European society, and they use Old European manners, so when visiting, please use these fine, formal manners and be open to new ideas! (refer to "Old European Manners" post from August 12, 2020). </p><p>Argentina is 1/3 grasslands. Their abundant natural resources include zinc, copper, petroleum, uranium, gold, silver, and oil. They farm sheep, soybeans, sugar, wheat, cattle and grapes (good wines). Argentina is known for their exquisite equestrian leather goods, horses and beef. Their government is a Federal Republic. Before World War II, Argentina was the 6th richest nation in the world. Argentina's GDP is $8,500.00 per capita. Their history dates back to the Paleolithic period and is diverse in culture. </p><p>Argentines are 93% Catholic. They speak the dialect of Castile, Spain. Trying a few magic words in Spanish is much appreciated. Ask "Hablo Castellano" instead of "Hablo Espanol." The public is well educated. The literacy rate is 96%. Family is paramount and family values are old world conservative. School and University are free. Languages spoken are Spanish, French, Italian and German. The Ethnic make up is 75% European and 25% Mestizo (a classification used to refer to a person of combined White and Indigenous American ancestry). The term "Mestizo was used for mixed race "castes" during the Spanish Empire.</p><p>Argentina is famous for the Tango and their infamous nightclubs. Take one simple lesson and learn the Tango if you can! Theatre and opera are also very popular. Dress is savvy city chic (black) and gentlemen wear jackets and long pants in the evenings. Women dress conservatively. Arrive 30-60 minutes late to any party, but not to a dinner party. Do not discuss religion, and Evita Peron is either loved or hated, so best not to discuss politics either. Do not talk about the Falkland Islands. Do not criticize anyone in public. Considered very rude! Talk about the weather, soccer, and how Buenos Aires is so "European!" </p><p>Eye contact is very important. When shaking hands, nod. Air kisses are between friends only. Argentinians are close talkers and touchers. Do not stand or speak with your hands on your hips. Cover your mouth when yawning. Index finger around your ear means "crazy." Hitting the palm of your left hand with your right fist means "stupid" or "I don't believe you." Best to stay away from all hand gestures, and gentlemen, please do not walk around with your hands in your pockets. Pants pockets are for making change only. Considered rude or obscene. Do not lean on a counter or chair. </p><p>Popular sports are soccer, horse racing and polo called "Pato," their official National sport. Many horse enthusiasts visit Argentina to peruse and purchase Argentina's famous leather saddles and bridals. Do not eat or drink while walking in public or on a public street. Do not blow your nose or pick your teeth in public. Stay away from all hand gestures. When out at restaurants, order the local alcohol as imports are very expensive. Argentinian wine is also a point of national pride! Do not wear native costumes. </p><p>To beckon a waiter, "seƱor", raise your hand with your index finger extended. In many cafes, cupping your hands means you want a cup of coffee. Breakfast is late as everyone loves to sleep in! Lunch is the main meal. Tea is at 4:00. Dinner starts around 9:00 p.m. Eat in the Continental style only. Argentines traditionally eat Gnocchi on the 29th of each month as this was when most people were paid. Enjoy Gnocchi Day! Many fabulous Italian recipes to try, write down and take home! Tip the waiter 10%. Tip the maid $5 USD per day. Tip the Porter $2 USD per bag. The currency is the Peso. 1 Peso = 100 Centavos. Carry around small bills and some change. When paying the Taxi driver, do not ask for change. Watch for pickpockets. Don't cross the street as traffic will not yield. "Props" = flirtatious comments and are common, so simply say "Thank you" and keep on walking. Be on time for a meeting.</p><p>Magic words include: Yes = "Si Gracias," No = "No," Hello = "Hola," Goodbye = Adios, Good Morning = "Buenos Dias," Good Evening = "Buenos Noches," You're Welcome = "De Nada," Pleased to meet you = "Encantado," How are you = "Como eta usted?," On the dot = "En punto." </p><p>Carne asada = beef steak. Asado = BBQ (beef and lamb). Gauchos BBQ = whole cow. Asado con cure = roasted beef in its hide over an open fire pit. Empanadas = pastries stuffed with meat/ham/chicken/seafood/eggs/olives/veggies/rasins/cheese. The Empanadas is basically the Argentinian version of "Pasties" from Cornwall, UK. Pucheros = stews. Cocro = a native stew of meat, corn & potatoes. Mate = national beverage (tea brewed from Holly tree). Drink bottled water (malaria).</p><p>Gift giving includes pretty flowers, fine chocolates, candy or gourmet cookies. Nice Scotch. Coffee table books. Do not give extravagant gifts as this may be interpreted as a bribe. Do not give personal items such as perfume, soaps or bath products. Open your gift in front of the giver at once and thank them! Write a "Thank you" note as soon as possible. </p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="text-align: center;"> <b style="font-style: italic;">Don't rush your conversation. The person is more important than the hour. </b></span></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-76600257969187513342021-06-06T12:01:00.007-07:002021-09-14T11:40:00.264-07:00Ireland - An ancient society with long time traditions and cheerful green!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-V9aLl9PBNFU/YL_rP8ak1hI/AAAAAAAABEg/hLLX3AN1SaIgwiCgGFcQWLudcDI07s-GwCLcBGAsYHQ/s640/4%2Bleaf%2Bclover.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="640" data-original-width="536" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-V9aLl9PBNFU/YL_rP8ak1hI/AAAAAAAABEg/hLLX3AN1SaIgwiCgGFcQWLudcDI07s-GwCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/4%2Bleaf%2Bclover.jpg" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;">The first thing one notices about Ireland is how green it is at every turn. The second thing one notices is </span><span style="text-align: left;">that Ireland is an ancient society with castles and old, historic Pubs. Ireland is known for their famous Irish wakes and brewing their own beer and whisky. The land of the movie: "The Quiet Man" and horses. However, be mindful of your manners and please use your magic words. The Irish are full of fun, are quick witted, have easy going conversation, and are cheerful and extremely polite, so please use your best 'Old European' manners (see post from August 12, 2020). </span></p><p>Ireland is slightly larger than the State of West Virginia. The Capital is Dublin. The annual GDP per capita is $78,500 USD. The Irish are known for their famous "Blacknose" sheep, potatoes, beets, wheat, peat, sandstone, wool, dairy, whisky, beer, investment banks, factories, and their famous Waterford crystal. Average temperatures, even in the Summer, are a chilly and wet, 40-60 degrees Fahrenheit. Save your pennies to purchase a traditional Clifden Aran wool sweater, as you will be wearing it, and you'll keep it for many years! </p><p>Always exchange your currency before leaving for your trip as you'll get a much better rate. This process may take up to three weeks at your local bank. The currency used now in Ireland is the Euro. English is the official language, but Gaelic may be spoken, especially in small town pubs. Brush up on some traditional pub sing along songs as well. You'll fit right in and impress!</p><p>St. Patrick is Ireland's patron Saint. Ireland is a majority Catholic country therefore Catholicism unites, but avoid religious and political discussions. Also do not refer to the Irish as "English." There are many lovely tourist sites and Universities, especially in the North. To mention only a few: the infamous Blarney Stone near Cork, the Grand Opera House in Belfast, Mount Stewart, Belfast Castle, Trinity College in Dublin, St. Anne's Cathedral, Titanic Belfast tourist site, and Carrickfergus Castle. </p><p>Dress is casual chic in the big cities, and more casual in the rural areas. Ireland is however, conservative, and ladies, please cover your shoulders if touring a Church, churchyard or historic site. No tube tops or bare arms. No dirty jeans, dirty sneakers or dirty sandals or feet. When traveling, always try to look clean and pressed. Too wet and cold for sandals anyway! Bring a light, fold up travel raincoat with hood, a small fold-up travel umbrella and light rain skimmers or rubbers. You will be glad you did! Also, do not wear loud colors or the color 'Kelly green.' Screams "tacky tourist." </p><p>In ancient, traditional Ireland, shake hands with everyone you are introduced to upon greeting and leaving. Shake firmly twice, then down. Use your warmest eye contact. Smile. Be hospitable. The Irish are easy going and the society is much slower paced. Use first names when invited to do so. "Cead mile failte" ('Kayd MEE-la-FALL-chah') is a common greeting. Please use your magic words: 'Please', 'May I', 'Thank you', and 'You're welcome', lots. No PDA. The Irish are reserved. No loud speaking. Stay away from all hand gestures, especially the "V" 'Peace' gesture. In Ireland it is an obscene gesture. </p><p>Some Irish phrases include: "footpath"(sidewalk), "bill" (the check), "queue" (line), "homely" (pleasant, kind, relaxed), "dither" (slow), "boot" (trunk of a car), and "bonnet" (hood of a car). </p><p>The Irish are the hardest workers ever, but they want it "their way." Hostess gifts include flowers (no red or white) chocolates, wines, and cheeses. Business gifts include pens, coffee table books, ties, paper weights, golf items. Welsh "love spoons" are also traditional. In business, the practical is preferred over the intellectual. Improvisation is preferred over rigidity. Get to know those you are doing business with a bit before getting down to business. The golf course is where much business is done. July and August are when the majority of Europeans go on vacation, so everything is closed. Also, beware of "Tinkers" (gypsies). They can be dangerous. </p><p>Guinness beer is served at room temperature, as is milk at breakfast with your cereal, and most drinks. Only Americans ask for ice. Stout is the Irish National drink. Gentleman, as per tradition, please order your lady, wife, girlfriend or friend who is female, a "1/2 pint", and men order a pint. Women DO NOT stand at the bar and order their own drinks, or carry their own drinks to their table. Gentleman, this is your opportunity to shine!! Always buy your own round of drink and never refuse a drink. </p><p>Family and friends are much more important than material goods. Families live close to each other. The honorable, the humble, the hard working and elders are respected. Decisions are made slowly with relationship building as paramount. </p><p>Traditional Irish foods are: soda bread, fish & chips (fried fish & French fry wedges with vinegar), mixed coddle (boiled bacon & sausages), Irish stew, lamb with vinegar mint crushed leaf sauce, unpretentious vegetables, meat and boiled parsley potatoes with lots of unsalted butter! Orange Marmalade is served with a traditional English breakfast of eggs, sausages, tomatoes, herring and kippers (strong fish). </p><p>High Tea at 5:00pm, (often confused with delicate Afternoon Tea at 3:00-4:00), is a hearty supper. It is a dinner of cold cuts, salad and biscuits or cakes, boiled bacon and cabbage. High Tea, back in the day, was traditionally for miners, who were down in the mines all day and had not eaten, as they had not been up from the deep underground mine. </p><p>The small plate next to your dinner plate is for boiled potatoes. Always eat in the Continental style.</p><p>Irish toasts are: "Slainte" (SLAHN-chah) which means 'good luck', and "Lechyd Da" (Yeh-hidday) which means 'good health.' Drinks are Irish Whisky, Irish Coffee, Mist = Whiskey based liquor, Pocheen = moonshine, and is illegal, and 'Black Velvet' which is Guinness + Champagne. Know that the beer is stronger than in the US. The Irish are reserved and do not appreciate loud or drunk behavior. Yes, even women can now give toasts, but don't say "charming" or "quaint" or you will sound like a tacky tourist! </p><p>Tip the maid 3-4 Euros per day, tip the porter 2 Euros per bag. Tip the Concierge 1-2 Euros for great help, Tip the taxi driver 10%. Tip the waiter 10-15% in a big city restaurant (Dublin) if your bill does not have a service charge added. Tipping is not expected in a small town Pub, but is always appreciated. Round your bill up as a tip for Bartenders, and this will also be appreciated as tipping the Bartender is not expected. </p><p><i style="text-align: center;">Enjoy green Ireland, its outdoor beauty, and its lovely hospitality!</i></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-57574108522994454832021-02-14T21:48:00.003-08:002021-02-15T15:46:25.114-08:00Canada - The Land of "Peace, Order and Good Government"<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dyrBnDeAzkY/YCoLcKX9UqI/AAAAAAAAA94/98xq5vx6RAklXHWcPCjk23ysXnl1ojk0ACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_2006.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-dyrBnDeAzkY/YCoLcKX9UqI/AAAAAAAAA94/98xq5vx6RAklXHWcPCjk23ysXnl1ojk0ACLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_2006.JPG" /></a></div><br />Glorious Canada is a lovely multi-cultural, duel-language Country with the famous Canadian Mounted Police, Niagara Falls, the Thousand Islands (1800 islands to be exact), delicious French Quebec bakeries, Victorian architecture, British Colonial cultural traditions and the Toronto Stock Exchange. <p></p><p>Ottawa is the Capitol of Canada. Total population numbers about 30 million. Montreal with 3 million population, Vancouver with 2 million, and Toronto has a population of approximately 3.5 million. Median Income is $20,000 USD. The currency is the Canadian Dollar. Canada operates on the metric system. The weather is Arctic cold, cold, wet and cold. Celsius is Fahrenheit x 2 + 32. Cars are equipped with engine "block heaters", or you can bring your own extension cord and hair dryer! </p><p>Most Canadians speak British English and French. Surprisingly, household grocery store brands and pharmaceutical products at the "Chemist's" are listed in French and English. In Quebec, 80% of citizens speak French, so best to brush up on a few 'magic words' in French. N'est-ce pas? </p><p>Canada's natural resources include timber, fish, natural gas, petroleum and many minerals. Agricultural products include beef, wheat, eggs, hogs, cattle and milk. Canada is known for its cars and trucks, wood, machinery, electronics and mining. </p><p>Canada prides itself on its low crime rate, however, when traveling, always remember to use your common sense and be careful. Ontario is big city mentality like New York City. Western Canada is like California, and British Colombia is like Seattle, WA. Unpopulated Northern Canada is for the Vikings! Quebec is very French! </p><p>Canadian manners are reserved and very 'Old World' and formal. Use formal British and French names and titles until invited to do so otherwise. Never embarrass another person. Sense of humor does not translate well in foreign countries. Do not compare Canada to the US. Remove your hat and sunglasses when speaking to someone or being introduced. Do not use hand gestures as most translate into obscene meanings, and keep your hands out of your pockets. Handshaking is 2 firm shakes, then down. Be sure to maintain eye contact and smile. </p><p>Use your French and English 'magic words.' Please = 's'il vous plait', Thank you = 'Merci', You're welcome = 'De rien', Have a nice day = 'Bonjourne.' To Toast: "A votre sante" (to your health). </p><p>Canadian Holidays: Boxing Day is the day after Christmas, December 26th. St. George's Day is April 23rd. Discovery Day is June 27th. Orangeman's Day is July 10th. Heritage Day is August 2nd. </p><p>Gift Giving for the host: avoid red roses (love) or white flowers (funeral). Any other flowers are fine, as are gourmet chocolates, a nice wine, or good scotch. Corporate gifts include a coffee table book from your home region, food from your home region (for example, Virginia peanuts), Logo gifts, desk set and a fine pen set.</p><p>Table manners include Continental style dining, and please use your finest formal table manners. Do not refer to the wait staff as "Garcon" which means "boy." Call the wait staff Monsieur or Mademoiselle. Linger a bit at the table after the meal with a rum, coffee and/or dessert. Take your time as meals are to be enjoyed! You will not be given the check until you ask for it: "L'addition, s'il vous plait." Just as in the UK and most of Europe, a "Service Compris" may be included and should always be listed at the bottom of your check. If in doubt, ask the Captain or the Manager if the service charge (usually 12% - 15%) is included. If the service is excellent, leave 5-10% extra cash tip on the table, or hand it directly to the server on your way out.</p><p>Tip the maid $5-$8CA per day. Tip the Taxi driver, tour guide, Spa attendant, Hairdresser and Barman 10% -15%. Not tipping is considered very insulting and rude. Always tip everyone. You will get better service, better tables, better drinks and enjoy your vacation more! </p><p>Hotels may charge a 17% - 20% V.A.T. (Value Added Tax), G.A.S. (Goods & Services) tax, or P.S.T. (Provincial Sales Tax) tax, so be aware. Read the fine print. </p><p style="text-align: left;"><span style="text-align: center;"> <b style="font-style: italic;">Remember, never sing "Alouette" as it is considered condescending. </b></span></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-7889576408846636722021-02-14T13:23:00.002-08:002021-02-14T20:55:23.841-08:00 Valentine's Day can be cruel for some. Be nice. <p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Pr-B3nptFhU/YCmUHpDN3zI/AAAAAAAAA9c/N_guehGbbKIIk6skEwXABq0A7Cs2YsdWwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1ce0.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1952" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Pr-B3nptFhU/YCmUHpDN3zI/AAAAAAAAA9c/N_guehGbbKIIk6skEwXABq0A7Cs2YsdWwCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/fullsizeoutput_1ce0.jpeg" /></a></div><br /><p></p><p>Happy Valentine's Day! Hope you all reach out to the ones you love. Just remember, kids and adults can be cruel. Mean for sport. Behaviors that become habit. Please remember to be kind. </p><p>Style Magazine, Family Style Section, May 2001</p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-11611194162804306902021-02-11T14:43:00.001-08:002021-02-11T14:45:06.476-08:00Wales "Cymru" The Lushest Land Since The Forest of Arden<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Y9wXseH0udw/YCMaaUkHOiI/AAAAAAAAA8Y/uXIWUcdJNg8LCjFGgw_SX2Cgl-Y5cw-XwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_0313.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-Y9wXseH0udw/YCMaaUkHOiI/AAAAAAAAA8Y/uXIWUcdJNg8LCjFGgw_SX2Cgl-Y5cw-XwCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_0313.JPG" /></a></div><br /><div style="text-align: center;"> Wales "Cymru" is one of the most lush lands since Shakespeare's "Forest of Arden." </div><p></p><p>With a land mass a bit larger than the size of New Jersey, ancient Wales has a burgeoning population of 3.1 million. Wales is known for its grazing grasses, moors, King Arthur & Camelot, the infamous literary "cywydd metre"(elegies & eulogies), the William Morgan 1588 Bible, "The Bard" 1774, the Prince of Wales, Welsh choirs, popular Portmerion pottery, the famous Tintern Abbey 1131, the Battle of Hastings 1066, Cambrian mountains, Pembrokeshire wild horses, many famous Church choirs and glee clubs, and Welsh Rugby.</p><p>Famous actors and artists include: Catherine Zeta-Jones, Anthony Hopkins, Richard Burton, Dylan Thomas, and Tom Jones! Movies and TV include "How Green Was My Valley", "Dr. Who", "BBC Sherlock Holmes", "Torchwood" and "Third Star", starring Benedict Cumberbatch. </p><p>Natural resources in Wales are coal, slate, iron, limestone, wool and many metals & minerals. Wales grows barley, oats, dairy, hay, potatoes, turnips, and of course, cows & sheep graze on the vast and lush yet rough grazing grasses. The Capital of Wales is Cardiff which is an ancient and quaint yet sophisticated city, and a cultural & media center. GDP per capita is about $30,000 USD. The weather is cold, foggy and wet. Average temperatures are 40-70 degrees F., so when packing, best to layer.</p><p>Dress code is casual chic. For any means of travel, a thin wool Pashmina is worth its weight in gold, as is a light weight travel rain coat with hood. Navy or black is best because it blends into any city scape, can be easily dressed up, and can mix and match with jewel tones or beige. Comfortable black walking shoes and black clothing may be boring but it makes you look thinner for those travel photographs! </p><p>When out and about, please use your 'magic words' ('Thank You", "Please", "May I", and "You're Welcome') and be quiet and reserved. No hand gestures. Don't rub your nose (means 'rub your nose in it"). Don't put your hands in your pockets. Do not eat or drink while walking down a public street, or in a taxi or bus. Eating & drinking in public is considered rude.</p><p>Some helpful Welsh catch phrases: Hello = 'S'mae', Good Morning = 'Bore da', Thank You = 'Diolch o gallon', and Goodnight = 'Nosda'. Do NOT say "pants" as these are underpants. Say trousers or slacks. </p><p>Hand shaking is 2 firm shakes, then down. Eye contact is to look someone square in the eyes and smile. Do not stare. Introductions are more 'old world': "How do you do?" and stand. Women extend their hand out first. Welsh demeanor is reserved, quiet, very polite and courteous. Private. </p><p>At the Pub: Men order a "pint." Women order a "half-pint." Over 28 famous Welsh beers available. Study up on which beer you'd like to order!</p><p> Welsh cuisine is famous for Welsh rarebit (don't worry, there is NO rabbit on the rarebit, just cheese), Glamorgan sausage, Bar birth, mutton and lamb stew or 'cawl', Conwy mussels, leeks, Sewin (trout) and samphire (greens), laverbread (Welshman's caviar), and crempogs (cakes). A Century old tradition for the miners, is a half moon shaped pastry consisting of a meal in a pocket called a "Pastie." It is layers of pork or beef, potato, vegetables, onion, and jam at the base. The "Pastie" was made by wives of miners to put in their lunch box and eaten mid-day, as the miners did not come up from the mine until the end of the day. Try one! They are a treat!</p><p>Table manners include Continental dining only, using your finest and most formal manners. Tipping is 10-12% as servers are paid a "living wage." Leave an extra 5-10% cash on the table (or hand it to the server) if the service is excellent. If you attend a dinner party, it is tradition that couples do not sit next to each other.</p><p>Take registered Taxi's only (Black Cab). It is customary to round up to the nearest GBP (Great British Pound). Tip the Porter 1-2 GBP per bag. Tip the maid 5-10GBP per weekend, 15-25 GBP per week. Tip room service 15%. </p><p>St. David is the Patron Saint of Wales and St. David's Day is March 1st, so many establishments and businesses may be closed. </p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Remember: the Welsh are very private and to themselves. Be respectful. </b></i></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-24225297836596557792021-02-08T15:33:00.013-08:002021-02-11T10:24:36.049-08:00Post Covid19 Big City Travel Tips and a Top 10 List of International Faux Pas<p> Having a bit of Covid "cabin fever?" Once Covid has subsided, here are a few tips to help you travel easily, and please remember: travel with handy wipes, wear your mask, keep your distance and wash your hands often. </p><p>15 Smart Travel Tips: </p><p>1. Drink plenty of water when flying, and avoid too much alcohol and sodas as these will dehydrate you.</p><p>2. Ladies: invest in one neutral colored (grey, black, beige or navy) very light, very thin, wool pashmina. I wear mine as a scarf in the winter, on train trips, on my lap covering my legs at the movie theatre and even on flights to warm climates! </p><p>3. When first on the plane set your watch if changing time zones. </p><p>4. Eat when you are hungry. E-mail or call ahead to your hotel and ask what type of coffee makers are in the rooms and bring those coffee pods/bags. Hotels charge a fortune for extras. Also, if your Country allows, pack a bit of half & half pods, travel sized salami, cheeses, olives, nuts & chocolate (the kind that do NOT need to be refrigerated) and crackers (& other foods you may like that do not need to be refrigerated) so you will have a bit to eat if you arrive late and everything is closed. Can't tell y'all how many tapas style dinners we have had this way while traveling! Save your bottled water and nuts from the plane too! Also, bring a few kitchen zip lock bags for leftovers as those "doggie bag" boxes are huge and take up too much room in your mini-fridge. Leftovers and plane food can be easily stored in any hotel room mini-fridge and you will save money and waste nothing! </p><p>5. Get up and walk around and stretch as much as you have opportunity on long train trips and flights. </p><p>6. Be alert always. When entering any room or theatre, look for the exit signs and doors, and remember where they are located.</p><p>7. Blend in. Do not be loud or boisterous. Ladies, if an establishment allows you to sit at the bar by yourself, just be mindful. Do not ever leave your drink on the bar to use the restroom, and return to drink the rest of your drink. Please take care and be careful. Do not give out your phone number. Have the gentleman give you his phone number, then you are in control. </p><p>8. Travel lightly. Many people duplicate and triplicate pack. You won't use half the clothes you will pack. No matter how long the trip, pack for 6 days & nights only. Stick to one pair of nice looking, yet comfortable black shoes for the day and 1 dress pair of shoes for evening, and pack black & navy clothing. One jacket. One skirt. One pair of casual and dress pants. One black sweater. A few light jewel toned shells or beige shirts to mix & match will do. Travel websites have washable under garments for ladies and gentlemen that will hand wash & dry overnight! </p><p>9. Use covered luggage tags. </p><p>10. Bring extra copies of your passport, prescriptions & important documents. I store mine inside my makeup case.</p><p>11. DO NOT travel with any valuable or sentimental jewelry, engagement rings or watches you cannot live without. If you do, keep them on your person. Don't wear fake bling jewelry either as muggers don't know the difference. Tuck your necklaces IN. Muggers will rip them off your neck & knock you down, even if they are fake. They won't know the difference or care. Ladies: if you must wear rings, turn them around when out on the street. </p><p>12. Seek out a local Pharmacy and go inside & ask for the business card of the pharmacist, usually available on the pharmacy counter. Ask for a fax and an e-mail incase you need to have your Doctor fax in or e-mail a prescription. </p><p>13. DO NOT wear a "fanny pack." This item in particular screams "Mug me here!" Travel catalogues have reasonably priced belts, shirts, and pants with interior hidden zippered pockets. They have annual sales too so with a bit of planning ahead, you may purchase these items on sale! </p><p>14. Always walk where there are people. If you feel you are in danger, dodge into any building with a doorman, a hotel, or any restaurant. Don't yell "help." Yell "Fire!" People always run towards a fire to help out. </p><p>15. Just use your common sense and don't be where you're not supposed to be when you're not supposed to be there. Gas up your car when reaching your destination. Always travel with a lighter, matches and a flashlight. Lock your car. Lock your door. </p><p><br /></p><p>Top 10 list of travel faux pas:</p><p>1. Don't assume things outside of America will be the same as within America.</p><p>2. If abroad on business, relax, socialize and develop your business relationships a bit first before getting down to business. </p><p>3. Don't compare customs, quality of goods and services or business practices inside the United States to those outside of the United States. Check guide books on local customs and business practices before you travel. </p><p>4. Even though in some countries and cultures (one example is Malaysia), it is proper to ask how much someone makes for a living, don't talk about money. Ever. For any reason. Inside or outside of the US. It's considered by most to be dƩclassƩ. </p><p>5. Don't misinterpret body language, such as standing too close, "close talkers", bowing, staring or not smiling. Different cultures have different mores and manners. Know before you go. </p><p>6. Don't fidget with your feet. Don't touch or point with your feet. Don't show the soles of your shoes. Feet and the soles of one's shoes are considered "dirty" or bad luck in many countries. </p><p>7. Watch your hand gestures. Many hand gestures have obscene meanings abroad. Also, keep your hands out of your pockets. Don't stand around with your hands stuck in your pockets. Europeans will wonder what you are doing in there. Pockets are for making change only. Also, don't touch anyone. Don't point with your finger. Don't point with your feet. Best to simply keep your hands at your sides. </p><p>8. Try to dress up a bit. Dress simply and be clean. Don't "go native." Just try to avoid looking like you are cleaning out your garage. No bra straps showing or tube tops. Tuck your shirt in. Clean your shoes. Wash your hair. It is also best to wear covered shoes. No one wants to look at your dirty toes, filthy feet or gross sandals on a plane. If you are late and need to run to your plane or train, tripping on flip flops is not the best way to get anywhere or exit quickly from a building or plane. Remember: Casual chic will admit you anywhere. Blending in is the best way to go. Black or Navy always works, and you can mix black and navy with either beige shirts or jewel toned blouses. You'll look thinner in black or navy too! This way, you can pop into the best hotel in the city and use their lovely, clean restrooms, and after, have an ice cream or drink in their cafe or bar. You'll look nice and fit in anywhere, because half the fun in traveling is treating yourself and enjoying your trip to the fullest. </p><p>9. Always veer towards the formal. Always use proper and correct titles and surnames until invited to do otherwise, especially with elders. </p><p>10. Always follow the appropriate dining etiquette and customs. In Europe, and especially in Germany, you will be considered dishonest and hiding something if you eat in the American style and place your hands in your lap. Eat in the Continental style! Even today, they will think you "have something up your sleeve." In many countries, it is considered crass, or strange, to eat while walking down a public street or drink your coffee while riding in a car. As a general rule, do not chew gum in public. Do not decline food or drink from your host. Never show displeasure with a particular food or drink you may not like. </p><p><br /></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Remember to use your magic words ("please", "thank you", "may I" and "you're welcome") when traveling and save your change all year so that you may tip often & generously. You will receive better service, better tables, better seats, better travel! </b></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fIHBqNGYStI/YCMh99SghcI/AAAAAAAAA80/ts7K0k_464sC-n_n5me9TNzH28nD2AU7gCLcBGAsYHQ/s1280/IMG_0435.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1280" data-original-width="960" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-fIHBqNGYStI/YCMh99SghcI/AAAAAAAAA80/ts7K0k_464sC-n_n5me9TNzH28nD2AU7gCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_0435.JPG" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p> </p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-39045767923533573412021-01-20T17:51:00.003-08:002021-01-21T15:26:18.247-08:00International Protocol Quiz - Do You Think You Are Ready?<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-XrWhR-nim_Y/YAjd-ezzNoI/AAAAAAAAA7A/JEn3MUHjlbAl6lP1P5SB3IfyLut0vfzCwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_0870.JPG" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1536" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-XrWhR-nim_Y/YAjd-ezzNoI/AAAAAAAAA7A/JEn3MUHjlbAl6lP1P5SB3IfyLut0vfzCwCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_0870.JPG" width="320" /></a></div><br /><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><p>Do you think you are ready for high society and a global world? Traveled internationally? Starting a new job in Washington, DC? Know all about your international manners, etiquette and Protocols? </p><p>Alrighty then. Let's test your knowledge! </p><p>1. Q: How do I address the President of the United States at a White House function when introduced?</p><p> A: Mr. President or Sir. The President's last name is NEVER used when addressing him personally. </p><p>2. Q: How do I address a US Ambassador when introduced? </p><p> A: Mr. Ambassador, Excellency or Sir/Madam.</p><p>3. Q: What gifts are appropriate for a corporate host in Germany?</p><p> A: Gifts are given at the end of the negotiations. They should not be Logo gifts, extravagant gifts or personal gifts (soaps, perfume or jewelry), as it may embarrass the Host. An American made fine pen or desk set is nice. Good Scotch or gourmet chocolates are appropriate as well. A bouquet of flowers in an uneven number (but NOT 13) are great, however, DO NOT give red flowers (love) or white flowers, in particular, chrysanthemums or calla lillies (funerals). </p><p>4. Q: Why is the American custom of crossing your legs at the knee frowned upon in Europe, Asia and the Middle East?</p><p> A: In Europe, crossing one's legs at the knee is considered bad breeding, and in Asia and the Middle East, crossing one's legs at the knee and the ankles, thus showing the sole of one's shoe, is considered to be dirty and an insult to your Host.</p><p>5. Q: Why should one be very careful in outwardly admiring possessions belonging to Middle Eastern clients/hosts/hostesses?</p><p> A: Tradition in the Arab culture is to make a gift something that is admired by a new friend. If you verbally admire something, your Host will give it to you! As well, you will be expected to reciprocate in kind. </p><p>6. Q: What gift should NOT be given in Japan because it signifies death? </p><p> A: A clock. Signifies time ticking forward to death!</p><p>7. Q: Why should you never give knives, sharp objects or scissors for a wedding, Christmas, or even a Birthday, even if you place a 'lucky penny' inside your gift? </p><p> A; In many cultures, including older generations in America, the superstition signifies bad luck and/or signifies death in giving such potentially dangerous items.</p><p>8. Q: Gentlemen, should you all stand up at the conference table when a woman executive exits or enters? </p><p> A; Sorry, but the answer is NO. Women executives may appreciate the occasional chair pulled out for them or the door held for them (especially those heavy glass doors) but gentlemen rising when a woman executive exits or enters the conference room is not necessary any longer, as women executives are considered equals in the board room. Interestingly, the host traditionally enters the restaurant first in Europe as it gives them a chance to introduce themselves to the Maitre'd, check to make sure the seating for their party is nice (not near the kitchen or bathroom), direct to whom the check will be delivered, etc. </p><p>9. Q: Do grade school children in Europe greet each other by shaking hands on the play ground? </p><p> A: Yes they do! This tradition is why handshaking is prevalent in Europe. </p><p>10. Q: At a business dinner, does the most important, oldest, honored, and/or highest ranking person still sit to the right of the host and the 2nd most important person sit to the left of the host? </p><p> A: Yes. Except Korea. Korean etiquette places the most important person in the middle of the table, and facing the door (which is where the power in any room is located), and is superstition to face the door because you can see who is coming and going. </p><p>11. Q: Which countries use the metric system? </p><p> A: Every country except the USA, Myanmar and Liberia! Thank you Thomas Jefferson!</p><p>12. Q: Why should one eat in the Continental Style (wrists above the table at all times) while in the UK, Europe, and especially in Germany?</p><p> A: Upon the popularization of tableware in the 15th Century, when sitting at the King's table, bad men placed knives up their sleeves and could potentially stab their King, or others in power. Showing one has "nothing up your sleeve" is a matter of trust in these societies, even today. If you place your hands or even one hand in your lap at any time, people around you will think you are hiding something, therefore are dishonest.</p><p>13. Q: What flower in France is a funeral flower, so should never be given as a gift?</p><p> A: Chrysanthemums. Any color, especially white. </p><p>14. Q: Should you tip in the UK, New Zealand, Canada?</p><p> A: Tipping is not expected for normal services in restaurants and pubs, as servers are paid a living wage. Also, an approximate 20% V.A.T. tax or approximate 12.5% consumer tax may be added to all purchases of goods and services. Check the laws with the concierge at your hotel or the Maitre'd in your local restaurant. Know if this charge is to be listed on the bill before dining out and what to expect before going out. </p><p>15. Q: What are some gift giving guidelines in China?</p><p> A: During a final negotiation, gifts may be exchanged. Wrap the gifts nicely in quality paper once inside China (once through Customs). Give a gift to each person on the negotiation team, otherwise you will "lose face." Do not give personal or intimate gifts such as soaps, perfume or jewelry (reserved for couples). Acceptable gifts include: Logo gifts from your Country, records, tapes, stamps, sports equipment, coffee table books from your home region, food specialties from your home region (for example: Virginia peanuts), fine chocolates, or a fine desk set. Check what foods are allowed into the Country before departing. Do not be surprised if the gifts will not be opened in front of you. </p><p>16. Q: In Germany, should you refer to someone as "Reverend Doctor Schaefer, or Mrs. Doctor Baker?"</p><p> A: Yes! German titles are very important and used in excess! Always use all titles and honorifics when addressing a business contact. </p><p>17. Q: When doing business in Mexico, Latin America, southern Europe, India or China, should you, as an American, get 'right down to business?' </p><p> A: No. First, 'Old World' niceties must be observed. Take your time. Tour the local attractions. Have lunch or dinner with your host. Make new friends. No business yet. Enjoy your afternoon or evening. </p><p>18. Q: When offered refreshments before a business meeting with your Middle Eastern host, should you accept? </p><p> A: Yes, absolutely. If you refuse refreshments or coffee, you are insulting your host. Also, do not ask about the spouse and children, do not cross your legs when you sit down to have your refreshments, and do not accept your refreshments with your left hand, as it is used for toileting. </p><p>19. Q: When walking down the street with a man, should the woman place herself on the outside of the sidewalk or place herself on the inside of the sidewalk?</p><p> A: Both. In America, the custom is to place the man on the outside of the sidewalk. In European countries, the tradition is to place the man on the LEFT of the woman, which places the woman on the inside and outside of the sidewalk depending on which direction you are headed. </p><p>20. Q: When in many foreign countries, can I use the "victory" or "peace" hand gesture, and can I lightly slap someone on the back or usher a woman into a room by touching her lightly on the shoulder?</p><p> A: NO. Just say no to all hand gestures as most have obscene meanings abroad and NEVER touch the Queen, including on the shoulder ushering her into dinner, and don't touch any other woman.</p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Travel safely and enjoy yourself, but always remember you are not in America but are representing Americans! </b></i></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-67593111136013039352020-12-14T23:17:00.025-08:002020-12-31T20:04:29.102-08:00Dining Skills Quiz In Time For Christmas! <p>Want to make a good impression and have impeccable manners at Christmas Dinner with friends and family? Here is a Christmas quiz to catch up on a few tips to keep your manners tip top! Remember: Leaders always make others feel special. Don't ever criticize anyone else if their manners are not as fine as yours.</p><p> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-q-mXLMYRqOw/X9pTloPV-KI/AAAAAAAAA4Y/MnGubNsUKj8QypDrq-ei-zGZvm1c0ttBACLcBGAsYHQ/s640/IMG_1782.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="558" data-original-width="640" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-q-mXLMYRqOw/X9pTloPV-KI/AAAAAAAAA4Y/MnGubNsUKj8QypDrq-ei-zGZvm1c0ttBACLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_1782.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="text-align: left;">DINING QUIZ </span></div><p>1. Being a good guest includes offering to hang up coats, helping to serve the meal, doing dishes. T F</p><p>2. When sitting down at the table, enter on the right side of your chair (from your left hip) T F</p><p>3. Grace is said after one picks up one's napkin and places it on one's lap. T F</p><p>4. My butter plate is on my right, and my drink glass is on my left. T F </p><p>5. When passing the bread basket, it is proper to offer bread to the person on your right, take a piece yourself, then pass the bread to your left. T F </p><p>6. It is proper to rest your wrists on the table when eating Continental style. T F</p><p>7. It is proper to leave the table anytime when you are finished with your meal. T F</p><p>8. It is proper to grab a piece of bread with your hands, tear it in half, and place the remaining half of that piece of bread back into the bread basket. T F</p><p>9. It is proper to hold the gravy boat above your plate when serving yourself gravy from the gravy ladle. T F</p><p>10. If you have to sneeze, grab your napkin, then sneeze into your napkin and blow your nose into your napkin. T F</p><p>11. The secret to the table setting universe is: Use your utensils from the outside in, T F</p><p>12. It is proper to break my roll, then butter the entire 1/2 of the roll before eating the whole thing. T F</p><p>13. With all the different dishes on my plate, it is proper to eat my food in a circle instead of eating my favorite foods first. T F</p><p>14. It is not necessary to write a "Thank You" note to the host/hostess. T F</p><p>15. I dropped my fork on the floor, so it is best to wipe it with my napkin and continue eating. T F</p><p>16. The sharp blade of the knife always faces out towards another person, not ever towards me. T F</p><p>17. When eating soup, it is proper for me to rest my soup spoon inside the soup bowl as opposed to resting it on the soup plate. T F</p><p>18. If I do not have a soup plate, it is ok for me to ask the waiter for one. T F</p><p>19. If you are not the host, it is proper to offer a toast at the beginning of a meal. T F</p><p>20. As a good guest, it is not necessary to bring a hostess gift. T F</p><p>21. Should you say something if the person next to you uses your bread & butter plate as their own? Y N</p><p>22. In India and the Middle East, it is proper to only use your right hand when eating. T F </p><p>23. It is suitable to place one's small clutch purse and cell phone on the table during a social or business luncheon or dinner. T F</p><p>24. It is proper for you to pick up a toothpick at the Captain's Desk on your way out of the restaurant and pick your teeth in public. T F </p><p>25. To signal to the waiter "I am finished" with my meal, I place my knife and fork in the 10:20 position, fork in the center and knife above the fork with the blade facing me. T F</p><p><br /></p><p>Key:</p><p>1. T 2. T 3. F 4. F 5. T 6. T 7. F 8. F 9. T 10. F 11. T 12. F 13. F</p><p>14. F 15. F 16. F 17. F 18. T 19. F 20. F 21. N 22. T 23. T 24. F 25. T </p><p><span style="text-align: center;"><br /></span></p><p><span style="text-align: center;"> </span><i style="text-align: center;">Sit up straight, relax & enjoy your lovely meal with family & friends!</i></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-66405590149952221392020-09-19T14:51:00.002-07:002020-10-07T15:33:35.704-07:00Paris, France - The Land of C'est la Vie & the Most Beautiful City Ever!<p>Paris is the most stunningly beautiful City on the planet but with some of the snobbiest people! In 1981, my college friends and I spent 5 days in Paris and Tra La La, were we busy! There is so much to do and see! The many museums, bridges, the Eiffel Tower, Churches, gardens, Versailles, the famous Notre Dame, Sacre-Coeur, the Palais Royale, the Left Bank and street cart crepes with warm strawberry jam, cafes, and the Haute Couture street fashion! Bring good walking shoes as you will need them! </p><p>We stayed on the artistic Left Bank in an inexpensive B&B which had circular stairs. The light went on as we went up the stairs then off after we had passed the sensors. Electricity is expensive. We paid 5 Francs ($1.25 back in 1981) for a "3 minute hot shower." Well, it was lukewarm and 3 minutes is NOT a long time if you haven't showered for 3 days and are a girl washing your hair! So, just be aware. Our room had 10' ceilings, handmade quilts on the twin beds, a sink (bathroom down at the end of the hall), an iron & ironing board, and 3 floor to ceiling French windows which opened out onto French Balconies. Everyone in Paris drinks their morning coffee standing by their French balconies! Great "people watching!" </p><p>Be aware, the French are VERY particular about their French accent being spoken perfectly, so unless you have perfect pitch, do not try to speak French or they will pretend to not understand you. Also, taxi's are very expensive and arrive 10 minutes early, then charge you for the 10 minutes, so beware. The Metro is very clean and manageable, but WATCH OUT for the gypsy children who are taught to pick pocket. They place a folded sweater to sell on your lap, then while distracting you, take your rings, bracelet & watch off. If you can afford to hire a driver for the day to drive you to many sites, do it! Worth the expense, as the traffic is now extremely congested. The key to Paris is blending in as much as you can with your city chic wardrobe, perfect French accent and French attitude of belonging! </p><p style="text-align: left;">Here are a few French tips: </p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Use your best "Old European Manners" (See August 12, 2020 post). </li><li>France is a Republic of 65 million people. It is about 2 times the size of Colorado.</li><li>The French GDP per capita is $41,400 USD. </li><li>Currency is now the Euro. </li><li>The French are famous for their fabulous cuisine & wine and culture, culture, culture. Also known for their Haute Couture fashion, champagne, Limoges region fine china and the Moulin Rouge, Paris is the heart of romance! </li><li>Temperatures are 32 degrees - 75 degrees F., so layer! Bring a light travel rain coat & foldable umbrella too as you may need them! </li><li>Dress code in France is "City Chic." Black, black and black goes with everything. </li><li>Dress up a bit in Paris as you may end up in a fancy location! Also, you will be able to walk into any fancy hotel or venue and use their downstairs public restroom, or "Les Toilettes" and carry some change or small Euro bills for the restroom machine or attendant (whatever is posted). </li><li>In France "froide" means 'cold' and "chaude" is "hot." The washroom faucets are reversed and are marked "C" and "F", so be careful! "C" means hot water!</li><li>Do NOT wear white tennis shoes. No "fanny packs." (travel websites have clothing with hidden inner pockets with zippers). No dirty or sloppy jeans. No bra straps showing or tube tops. No shorts at night. Layer. </li><li>DO NOT put salt & pepper on your food before your first bite. The French take great pride in their famous cuisine and in their efforts to prepare food perfectly for you and they think their food should not need any salt, pepper or any other spice added. This action will insult the chef and the waiters will scoff at what they consider to be your bad manners. </li><li>Always eat in the Continental Style, and clean your plate!</li><li>An empty wine glass means you want a refill.</li><li>Dining is always Continental style always. Eat everything (except bread) with your knife and fork. If there is no bread/butter plate, place your bread next to your fork on the table. </li><li>Cut your fruit. Cut your cheese at an angle (superstition). </li><li>As per the Christian tradition, break your bread with your hands before buttering or eating.</li><li>De l'eau gazeuse is sparkling water. </li><li>Know your dessert spoon and fork.</li><li>Cross your knife and fork, and it means you want another helping. </li><li>Placing your knife and fork in the 10:4 position means you are finished.</li><li>Gentlemen, leave your jacket on!</li><li>If you are invited to dinner, you must bring a hostess gift. Wrap your gift very nicely with high quality wrapping. Include a hand written personal note inside your gift. Appropriate gifts include nice wine, fine chocolates, coffee table books, or flowers. No red flowers (love only) or white flowers (funeral). </li><li>Do NOT give Logo gifts. </li><li>Do NOT chew gum in public or eat food or drink while walking down a public street. Considered rude. </li><li>Vegetable market vendors serve you. DO NOT touch the vegetables. </li><li>Greet clerks when entering or exiting their shop. "Bonjour, ca va?" means: Hello, how are you? "Merci, bounjourne" upon leaving means "Thank you, have a good day." </li><li>Speak softly in public and do not argue. Don't joke. DO NOT be the loud, ugly American. </li><li>Close the door and turn off the light when exiting any room. Electricity in France is very expensive.</li><li>DO NOT discuss money, politics or mention salary when chatting with the French. Rude.</li><li>If attending a special occasion party, arrive 15 minutes "socially late." </li><li>If attending a dinner party in a French home, be on time. Bring a hostess gift and small gifts for th children (hard candies or small trinkets). DO NOT ask for a "house tour."</li><li>Give business/personal calling cards to everyone. Status symbol!</li><li>Bastille Day is July 14th. Huge National holiday. Stores/Restaurants may be closed. </li><li>In France, you must ask for your check or the waiters trust you simply want to hang out. "L'addition s'il vous plait" with a hand motion of a signing your palm means you want your check. "Service Compris" (usually 15-18%) is included on the bill and should be listed at the bottom of the check. If the service is extra good, leave a bit of cash on the table. </li><li>Family and close friends "air kiss" both cheeks. NO hand kissing. </li><li>Titles are important. Use Titles and last names until invited to use a first name.</li><li>Shake hands with everyone. Ladies extend their hands first. NO kissing of hands. </li><li>Champagne is sometimes served before the meal.</li><li>Whisky, rum and sometimes a martini is served after the meal.</li><li>Always try the local delicacies such as quiche, crepes, frog legs and escargot. </li><li>Families are small but family life is important.</li><li>Ladies, sit with your knees together or ankles crossed. DO NOT cross your legs at the knees.</li><li>Gentleman, keep your hands OUT of your pockets. </li><li>Stay away from all hand gestures. Especially the "thumbs up" gesture. Most are considered to be obscene.</li><li>Toasts: "A votre santƩ!" </li><li>Do not cut your salad. Fold your salad. Cutting (thus bruising) your lettuce will insult the chef.</li><li>If unsure, use "Madam" for both single and married grown adult women.</li><li>Bring small change and bills for the restroom or "W.C." charge and tip the attendant 1-2 Euros.</li><li>Tip an Usher/Bellboy 2-3 Euros per bag.</li><li>Tip the Maid 5 Euros per day. Leave daily as you may not have the same maid service daily.</li><li>"Service Compris" (15-18%) is always listed on the bottom of the check and leave a little bit extra cash on the table (or hand directly to the server) for great service (5-10 Euros, depending on the amount of the bill). </li></ul><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Vivre la France! </b></i></p><p style="text-align: center;"> </p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SNWROQy8SbY/X2Z7eAGE65I/AAAAAAAAAy8/MUkOZqR5Rs0APR4GLiQxG8FfULcy2KDJgCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b71.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1348" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-SNWROQy8SbY/X2Z7eAGE65I/AAAAAAAAAy8/MUkOZqR5Rs0APR4GLiQxG8FfULcy2KDJgCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/fullsizeoutput_1b71.jpeg" width="320" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-m2f2UiEQxXU/X2Z7Y8lYlJI/AAAAAAAAAy4/i7xIfFl02d8UyI3ACwX-uWUwsLFlyQ43wCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b73.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; 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margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1749" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ZFWhBvVDthU/X2Z5QMnLj7I/AAAAAAAAAxI/xZiqWeZT2z01idmMiomaGEYd6-6MNx-3wCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/fullsizeoutput_1b61.jpeg" /></a></div><p></p><p> </p><p> </p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-13305181734555919662020-09-04T15:28:00.002-07:002022-05-17T10:08:25.367-07:00Proper Dining Manners for England, & Jolly Travel Stories & Tips!<p>Perhaps it's the romance of Royalty and their accent, or the elegance of Afternoon Tea, or the Elevenses tradition, or that our family is Mayflower from the Huntingdonshire District (now Cambridgeshire), but England was always fascinating to me. The White Cliffs of Dover, the horse-drawn carriages, the Universities and literature, the Centuries old customs, the roses and the Royals! The land where muffins and biscuits and biscuits are cookies! I studied long hours and saved up babysitting and waitressing money all throughout High School so that I could attend a semester abroad in college.</p><p>Luckily, I attended my 1981 Summer semester abroad at St. Anne's College, Oxford, during Princess Diana's wedding celebrations. The London crowds were enormous, and enormously polite. I pardoned my way through the massive audience attending the fireworks the night before the wedding, made my way up to the front row where there was a fence, snapped a few photos, turned around and was claustrophobic for the first time in my life as the crowd was huge. People were so nice to allow me up front. The British are extremely kind and lovely souls. </p><p>School was the most fabulous learning experience, however, the British educational system teaches subjects differently. Learning is not taught in the "parrot" style system like in the US. Four small paperback books a week we read in my British Literature class. Then, we listened to a lecture each day in class by the author, and one was expected to form one's own opinion about the subject at hand, but you MUST back up your opinion. As well, the professor calls on each student in turn to participate in discussions during the twice week afternoon "Tutorials", which are comprised of basically sitting on the floor in the small office of the professor, so you better have studied up. You may also be served tea, so be prepared to exhibit your best tea manners. Breakfast at school was different but good! Simple bran cereal and room temperature milk in pitchers. Dry toast in toast racks and soft butter. Scrambled eggs and sausages. Then there are the pitchers of warm custard at breakfast, lunch and dinner. YUM! </p><p>The first thing to know about England is the British are very proper, polite and mannerly. Use your best "Old European Manners" (see the post on August 12, 2020). Be exceptionally polite and use your softest voice and all your 'magic words' all the time. The Brits love their afternoon Tea and Sherry, their flower gardens, and punting. The famous "pick up put down tea" was introduced in chic Belgravia at the beginning of the Napoleonic Wars. Talk about the weather and rather than politics or "American Independence Day", (July 4th). Don't say the word "charming." They've heard it a million times. Say the word "lovely" (closer meaning to the word 'wonderful') instead. You will be thanked! Also, a pair of good walking shoes (NOT white sneakers) are a must!</p><p>Here are a few jolly travel tips:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>England has a population of 56 million (UK = 68 Million) and the island itself is about the size of the State of New York. The Capital is London, with a population of 9 million and which is 5 x the size of New York City. </li><li>GDP of the UK per capita is $42,500 USD. 5th richest country in the world, but do NOT expect your accommodations to be spacious and luxurious like America. Many families, as well, live in multi-generational homes.</li><li>England is an island, so it is windy and does rain. Temperatures are wet and cool at 40 - 70 degrees F. Bring a travel raincoat, umbrella, and rain shoes.</li><li>England is known for Wedgwood Jasperware China, Staffordshire quadruple plate silver hollowware, their wit & puns, Edwardian and Empire movies, and hedges. Take your walking shoes (NOT white tennis shoes) and enjoy the outdoors!</li><li>Culturally, England is the land of Gainsborough, Constable, J.M.W. Turner, Alfred Munnings, Shakespeare, Charles Dickens, Jane Austen, Keats, Yeates, Shelley, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, Duran Duran, and The Clash. Google up the museums, sites and tours and go! </li><li>The British also know the history of and honor their war monuments. These structures are everywhere. Read the engravings/plaques, learn & enjoy. </li><li>Plays in London, the land of Shakespeare, are everywhere and students get discounts. GO!</li><li>"Elevenses" is tea at 11:00 am. A nice morning break!</li><li>"High Tea" is NOT more formal than "Afternoon Tea." "High Tea" traditionally is held at 5:00pm because the miners and laborers had not eaten much all day and it includes meats, cold cuts and cheeses, fish and eggs. Think of High Tea as a light supper.</li><li>"Afternoon Tea" is the more formal tea! It is held around 3:00pm - 4:00pm and includes many teas, and the famous scones with clotted cream and jam. Afternoon tea also includes cucumber and egg salad sandwiches (crust off, of course), chocolates, sweet pastries, fruit tarts, meringues, hot chocolate, and champagne! Remember to first break a bite sized piece off of the scone, then spread the clotted cream onto your piece of scone, THEN the jam, otherwise you will have a mess! True old fashioned British do not take milk with their tea, but if you do take milk, put it in after the tea is poured. The person chosen to pour the tea is referred to as "Mother." Never use half & half in your tea as it disguises the flavour. Afternoon Teas are popular and a huge treat, so be sure to make reservations, dress up, and tip well. You will be full and happy! </li><li>Dress code in the UK is "City Chic." Black, black and black. Goes with everything and is east to pack. Bring a lightweight travel raincoat and foldable umbrella and skimmer rain shoes too. You will be glad you did. NO white tennis shoes. NO fanny packs (they scream 'tourist'). Travel web sites have travel clothing with hidden internal zippers. Put a few pounds in your shoes too. </li><li>When out in public, mind the gaps on tube and train platforms, speak quietly, look RIGHT when crossing any street, and DO NOT eat, drink or chew gum while walking down the street or while on public transportation. Rude!</li><li>Catch phrases are: "Well done", "Brilliant", "Cheers", "Lovely", "Right", "DoneThen", "Fancy a Cuppa?" </li><li>The Restroom is the "Toilet", "W.C." or "Loo." The elevator is the "Lift." DO NOT say "ride" when referring to an elevator or taxi. "Ride" has a completely different obscene meaning. French fries are "chips." Cookies are "biscuits." Waiting in line is a "queue." "Pants" are underwear. The pharmacy is called the "Chemist." </li><li>Hand shaking is a firm 2 shakes, then down. Eye contact is square in the eyes, and smile.</li><li>Introductions are "Old World" formal. Use proper titles and say: "How do you do." Women extend their hand first. </li><li>The British are friendly and very helpful, but reserved and cool.</li><li>At the Pub: Men order a 'Pint", women order a "Half pint." Use your beer brand/logo coaster, and sometimes you can even keep it! </li><li>The Brits love talking about how they've seen "The Queen", Queen Elizabeth II, & other Royalty, as the Windsor's are always out and about with their charity and Church works. Listen to their stories. Everyone has one! </li><li>Traditional British Cuisine is Lamb, "Fish & Chips" (Fried fish and french fries), "Bangers & Mash" (sausages and mashed potatoes), great curried anything, tomatoes with every meal, teas, scones and double creams & jams. </li><li>Table tipping is 10-12%. Hand the tip to the server. Give an extra 5% if the service is excellent. </li><li>Eat Continental style only. The waiter transfers food from a serving platter to the guest's plate always from the left. The guest of honour is served first. Women are served before men, older before younger. If at home, Mother is served first! Do not place your hands in your lap. Keep your wrists above the table and your elbows OFF the table. DO NOT place your cell phone on the table. Sit up straight. Keep your voice down. Spoon your soup away from you. </li><li>The famous "Black Taxi" service in England is highly regulated. Drivers must take tests to navigate London, 5 x the size of NYC, by the shortest and quickest route, so do NOT tell them where to go. Tip 15%. Always reliable and a treat to take a Black Cab. </li><li>Currency in England is the Great British Pound. NO Euro. Tip the porter 2 GBP per bag. Tip the maid 4-5 GBP per day. Tip room service 15%. </li><li>Time is 24 Hour. Practice subtracting 12. </li></ul><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Remember: As head of her family and Country, Windsor tradition demanded that Queen Victoria pause and stand in the entrance to receive important visitors. As a result, where is the power in every room? The doorway. </b></i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-P27w4SNMg8o/X1KyqhsaShI/AAAAAAAAAuM/rIjj96MXJT0ahup-iXNm-4oVg94VszGkQCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b4b.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1306" data-original-width="2048" height="127" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-P27w4SNMg8o/X1KyqhsaShI/AAAAAAAAAuM/rIjj96MXJT0ahup-iXNm-4oVg94VszGkQCLcBGAsYHQ/w200-h127/fullsizeoutput_1b4b.jpeg" title="Blenheim Palace Dining Room 1981" width="200" /></a></i></div><i><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-R2sr2lJl4LA/X1Kyyo4DSaI/AAAAAAAAAuQ/TOP12kVYDW04-KG2Ti7Z4YUZnGWMXl3agCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b40.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1110" data-original-width="2048" height="108" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-R2sr2lJl4LA/X1Kyyo4DSaI/AAAAAAAAAuQ/TOP12kVYDW04-KG2Ti7Z4YUZnGWMXl3agCLcBGAsYHQ/w200-h108/fullsizeoutput_1b40.jpeg" title="Princess Diana's Fireworks Night Before Wedding" width="200" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; 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He was stationed in Europe, London for 6 months, then finally Munich for 6 months. So, as a student abroad in 1981, my friends & I made it a point to visit Munich and Dachau. In Munich, the streets, sidewalks and street lamps were new. The old buildings which survived still had shrapnel holes in the sides. The reserved citizens would quietly gather in the old town square to watch the huge and intricate Cuckoo clock strike Noon. It was quite the treat, but back then, Munich was grey. The citizens walked quickly and efficiently about, but with their heads slightly down. We were the giggly American college students running around in shorts! </p><p>Dachau was a 20 minute bus trip from Munich. Although gloomy, I encourage everyone visiting Munich to visit Dachau. Back in 1981, it was almost untouched. There was no fancy visitors Center. No tour guide. No memorial wall site or flowers. Only a guest book to sign at the end. We simply stepped off of the old, non-air-conditioned school bus and walked in through the old gates. There was one lady at a visitors desk to sell us a ticket, but no one else. We walked right into the old crematory. The old dormitories. The many wooden triple bunk beds still had scratchings of every name and every initial of each human soul imprisoned there. That's when it hit me, along with my Dad's words: "No one knew. No one knew what was really going on. They knew it was desperate, but no one could have imagined. Myself and my Air Force buddies came back from our initial visit all sick to our stomachs." My friends and I didn't speak for hours afterwards. A sad but life changing visit worth your time. </p><p>Also, while driving on the Autobahn, our bus driver pointed out what the locals call: "Hitler's Widow's Peake" Photo below! </p><p>On a happier note, below are a few travel tips for Germany:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Do use your old European manners (see the post "Old European Manners" August 12, 2020)</li><li>Germans value hard work, frugality, thriftiness, punctuality, order, rules, respect, perfection, achievement, belongingness, and are proud.</li><li>Germany is a country of 83 million. Berlin is the capital. The GDP per capita is $$46,500 USD</li><li>Germany is a bit bigger than New Mexico. It is a Federal Republic. </li><li>Germany is known for their "perfectionism"</li><li>Layer, as the temperatures are 25 - 60 Degrees F. and it's a rainy climate.</li><li>The German currency is the Euro. You will need cash for some purchases. Always carry a bit of cash as well for tipping. Exchange your currency at your bank before you leave for your trip. If you run out of Euro cash, DO NOT exchange monies on the street. Go to a bank. </li><li>DO NOT eat or drink while walking down the street. Rude. DO NOT chew gum in public.</li><li>Dress code is European city chic. Plain black, navy and beige are best. DO NOT wear white tennis shoes or a fanny pack. Travel websites have clothing with inside hidden zippers. My Mother taught me to keep some cash inside my shoe. Covered shoes are best. </li><li>DO NOT wear shorts unless you are exercising or hiking. </li><li>We also drove by Hitler's "Eagle's Nest" mountain as pictured. </li><li>DO NOT be the loud, boisterous "Ugly American." Speak quietly and be reserved.</li><li>If you must wear jeans, black jeans are best and should be clean and pressed.</li><li>Gentleman: please keep your hands out of your pockets. Pockets are for change only. </li><li>Speak a few 'magic words' in German and you will be appreciated. "Ein beer bitte" means "one beer, please!" "Bitte" = Please and "You're welcome.". 'Danke' = Thank you. "Hallo" = Hello. "Guten Morgen" = Good Morning. "Grub Good" = "Good Day." "Guten Abend" = "Good Evening." "Ja" = "yes." "Nein" = "No."</li><li>Germans have coffee and cake at 4:00pm. "Kaffe und Kuchen." All kinds of different cakes & strudels.</li><li>Toasting: "Zum Wohl" = "To your health." Or "Prost" is traditional too. Use these toasts at Octoberfest or when simply going to a beer house and having a beer with friends. The waitresses here are fabulously talented (they gracefully carry 6-8 beer mugs all at once) and nice, and the sauerkraut (fermented cabbage) & meats are fresh & good!</li><li>"Wie Gehts" = "How are you" and begins a discussion. </li><li>Breakfast = boiled eggs, rolls and marmalade, cheeses, coffee & hot teas & hot chocolate! </li><li>Lunch = meats, potatoes, sausages, vegetables, salad and soup.</li><li>Dinner = "Sauerbraten" is pot roast and is the German National dish. "Kartoffelpuffer " = potato pancakes (my Dad used to make these for breakfast from leftover mashed potatoes the night before). "Spatzle" = egg noodles. "Zungerl" = pig's tongue. "Wursts" = sausages. "Bratwurst" = grilled sausage. "Leberwurst" = liverwurst. "Winerschnitzel" = breaded fried veal. "Knodel" = dumplings. "Torten" = decorated cakes. "Schwern" = pork. "Lamm" = lamb. "Hahnchen" = chicken. "Fisch" = fish. "Ei" = egg. "Gemuse" = vegetable. "Fleisch" = meat.</li><li>Appetizer = "Vorspeise." Main Course/Entree = "Hauptspeise." Dessert = "Nachtisch." </li><li> Eat every meal Continental style only. Otherwise, Germans think you are hiding something, that you are not trustworthy. DO NOT place your hands in your lap. Keep your wrists always above the table. </li><li>The toilette is "Toiletten" or "WC." Women = "Frauen" and Men = "Herren."</li><li>Hot water = "Warm." Cold water = "Kalt."</li><li>Handshakes are firm and eye contact is direct. Smile warmly. Shake hands with everyone present. Women do extend their hands first. Men should stand when a woman enters the room. </li><li>Use last names and formal titles only until you are invited to use a first name. </li><li>German's answer the phone with their last names.</li><li>Try not to ask for ice. The weather is cool and wet anyway, so you probably don't need it!</li><li>Use your knife and fork Continental style to eat your sandwiches and fruit.</li><li>DO NOT use the "Ok" hand gesture. Obscene!</li><li>DO use the "thumbs up" to order more beers or as a sign of appreciation!</li><li>DO NOT point. This is a signal for "stupid" or "crazy."</li><li>Dinner seating is formal. Continental style only. Brandy is often served after dinner.</li><li>To beckon a waiter, raise your hand and say: "Herr Ober." </li><li>DO NOT cut your dumpling or potato with your knife because this suggests to the chef they are not tender or properly cooked.</li><li>Clean your plate!</li><li>Butcher shops are common as the famous meats and sausages are fresh and delicious! Don't be scared of the mammals and fowl hanging in the windows!</li><li>NO dirty jeans. Some establishments may not accept jeans at all. Check before going to dinner.</li><li>Tip 10% for a large meal or dinner. Leave a bit of cash on the table if the service is exceptional.</li><li>Tip 5% for a beer or small item.</li><li>Tip the Taxi driver 2 Euros per trip.</li><li>Tip the Maid 4-5 Euros per day.</li><li>Tip the Porter 2 Euros per bag. </li></ul><div style="text-align: center;"><i><b>Guten Appetit!</b></i></div><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1236" data-original-width="2048" height="247" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-lU5V4FMXXiM/X01xo-XswXI/AAAAAAAAAsg/DMqcn6fpUD0RPEj6p9bRS5lZ744Ld_bBwCLcBGAsYHQ/w410-h247/fullsizeoutput_1b39.jpeg" width="410" /></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-AUiRenwzwkY/X01xvYfkaUI/AAAAAAAAAsk/7TggLiwmL8EN7mDAFzd1dmcW972LYbJCACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b3a.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1370" height="410" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-AUiRenwzwkY/X01xvYfkaUI/AAAAAAAAAsk/7TggLiwmL8EN7mDAFzd1dmcW972LYbJCACLcBGAsYHQ/w274-h410/fullsizeoutput_1b3a.jpeg" width="274" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kL-U_QMBO2I/X01x2PZmRjI/AAAAAAAAAso/PjCumtGp4YcHjuGbu78xT99BXZdPy3WJwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b38.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1410" data-original-width="2048" height="282" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kL-U_QMBO2I/X01x2PZmRjI/AAAAAAAAAso/PjCumtGp4YcHjuGbu78xT99BXZdPy3WJwCLcBGAsYHQ/w410-h282/fullsizeoutput_1b38.jpeg" width="410" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mK_oDtsLSIM/X01x_b81wBI/AAAAAAAAAsw/u1CmL0dMOg8jvr69rl4VvTNpVYBo78HegCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b3c.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1327" data-original-width="2048" height="266" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-mK_oDtsLSIM/X01x_b81wBI/AAAAAAAAAsw/u1CmL0dMOg8jvr69rl4VvTNpVYBo78HegCLcBGAsYHQ/w410-h266/fullsizeoutput_1b3c.jpeg" width="410" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kfrbIlYcBXU/X01yHdFPaBI/AAAAAAAAAs4/4v5CjmUIfL4FkHuo_5LzFc5oOuG06q0yQCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b33.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1522" data-original-width="2048" height="305" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-kfrbIlYcBXU/X01yHdFPaBI/AAAAAAAAAs4/4v5CjmUIfL4FkHuo_5LzFc5oOuG06q0yQCLcBGAsYHQ/w410-h305/fullsizeoutput_1b33.jpeg" width="410" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EhS8rMd7_uw/X01yONnu_XI/AAAAAAAAAs8/eFfWo-CHvZcX7NIiAtEx9kTVn7X8nl76gCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b36.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1516" data-original-width="2048" height="303" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EhS8rMd7_uw/X01yONnu_XI/AAAAAAAAAs8/eFfWo-CHvZcX7NIiAtEx9kTVn7X8nl76gCLcBGAsYHQ/w410-h303/fullsizeoutput_1b36.jpeg" width="410" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-GvNemCZlp8c/X01yUVlM_NI/AAAAAAAAAtE/975t2y3rM2oClf4O9w4I5unnBkz68sg6wCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b3b.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1358" height="410" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-GvNemCZlp8c/X01yUVlM_NI/AAAAAAAAAtE/975t2y3rM2oClf4O9w4I5unnBkz68sg6wCLcBGAsYHQ/w271-h410/fullsizeoutput_1b3b.jpeg" width="271" /></a></div><p><br /></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-12324957057998311892020-08-27T14:26:00.002-07:002020-08-27T14:31:06.050-07:00Switzerland is a Perfect Picture Postcard<p>Switzerland has little chalets & cute farm sheds everywhere. Green fields and snow. The Matterhorn. Quilts on your bed. Alphorns. Fondue and cuckoo clocks. Brown Swiss cows with cowbells. Always a festival with traditional Swiss horses in pretty horse harnesses and red & white Swiss plumes. Hiking. Fabulous fresh chocolate. Dom Perignon. Better yet, the sun sets in the Summertime at 10:30pm (22:30) and the moon is huge at an altitude of 15,000 feet!</p><p>As a student abroad in 1981, my friends & I took a one hour charming little cogwheel railway up the mountain from the District of Visp to Zermatt and opened the windows. It was like living in a postcard. We were approached at the train station in Zermatt by a nice lady offering her lovely B&B Chalet complete with flower boxes on the balconies and down comforters on the twin beds. Nice! Continental breakfast was good too. The next day we went exploring and shopping. I had my first super sugary Swiss marzipan and delectable Swiss chocolate. YUM! </p><p>The next day my friends went hiking in shorts and shirt sleeves, and I went skiing on the Matterhorn. 5 cable cars up. Swishing down the Matterhorn, I must have taken a wrong turn, and ended up at the Italian border speaking broken French to a German who also spoke French (way better then I) trying to figure out how to get back up the mountain! Tired, I took off my skis, bought the biggest chocolate bar I have ever seen, and sat in the sun on a lawn chair soaking up the mid-day sun. Everyone was in ski boots and bathing suits! Bring sunscreen, because even in the snow of August, that sun is hot at 15,000 feet and you'll get a sunburn!</p><p>Here are some Swiss travel tips: </p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Do use your European manners (see the post "Old European Manners" on August 12, 2020).</li><li>With the altitude, drink lots of water and with the sun & snow, layer.</li><li>Switzerland is a Federal Republic, has a population of 8.6 million, and a GDP per Capita of $83,700(USD), the second highest in the world. </li><li>Bern is the Capital and has a population of 1 million. Zermatt's population is only 5,800! </li><li>Anyone remember "The Swiss Family Robinson?" (I might be showing my age!) </li><li>Switzerland's beautiful environment houses much timber, salt, dairy and hydropower. </li><li>Families are small (maybe only one child) but family life is #1 most important, and the elderly are well respected. </li><li>Languages spoken are many! German, French, Italian, English and Romansh. Most people in Switzerland speak 3-4 languages. Multi-cultural and multi languages! </li><li>The Swiss are known for their fierce independence, fine watches, cleanliness, punctuality, tolerance, proud heritage, hard work and thriftiness! It is said: "Unity - yes! Uniformity - no."</li><li>Manners are formal and very old world (see the post "Old European Manners" August 12, 2020).</li><li>No shorts in the evenings. Clothing is conservative and 'casual chic' in the evenings. Please cover your shoulders and knees if you visit or attend a Church. </li><li>Do not stretch or slouch in public. </li><li>Stay away from all hand gestures (for example, the "OK" hand gesture is obscene). Do not talk with your hands. Keep your hands at your sides and do not touch your face or head when in public or when talking to others. Considered rude. </li><li>Handshakes are firm with direct eye contact. </li><li>Gentlemen, please keep your hands out of your pockets. They are for giving or receiving change only. Do not walk, stand or take photographs with your hands in your pockets. Most Europeans wonder what your hands are up to in there! </li><li>Eat Continental style only. Goes back to Kings and their enemies hiding knives up their sleeves at the table. Culturally, it's still a trust issue. </li><li>Keep your wrists on the table at all times and do not put your hands in your lap. </li><li>Do not leave food on your plate, and when you are finished, place your fork and knife in the 10:20 position. </li><li>Do not salt and pepper your food before you taste it. This act would insult the chef. </li><li>Take a small second helping if at a dinner party. </li><li>If there are no bread knives, break your bread before buttering or eating your bread. If there is no bread plate, place your bread on your dinner plate or the table.</li><li>Handshakes are firm. Shake hands with everyone present in greeting and departing. </li><li>Academic titles are very important. </li><li>Surprisingly, expect some pushing in lines, for example, at the bakery or ski slope. </li><li>When shopping, always greet the sales clerk by saying hello: "Hoy." Or, you can always say the chic Italian "Ciao" for hello and goodbye! Easy to remember. </li><li>Beware of pickpocketing, free stuff scams, fake donations and fake police.</li><li>Breakfast is traditionally Continental style. Muesli, fresh fruit, especially apples. Coconut flakes & chocolate. Yum! </li><li>Lunch could be a complete meal, sandwich, or bircher muesli (Swiss oatmeal made with cream). </li><li>Foods are French and German! Soup & salad, meats and sauerkraut, potatoes, sausages, bread & cheese, cheese fondue, and those famous Swiss chocolates! </li><li>Dinner is light. Bread & cheese, cold cuts, and jams or honey. </li><li>Currency in Switzerland is the Swiss Franc (CHF). Prices may be indicated in Euros so visitors may compare prices.</li><li>When dining out, as in many big cities, strangers may sit at your table in a pub or inexpensive restaurant. You are not expected to chat with them. </li><li>When dining out, a 15% tip is automatically added to your bill. Leave 5-10% cash (rounding up is simple) on the table when leaving if your service is good.</li><li>When taking a taxi, a 15% tip is included for your ride.</li><li>Tip the maid 1-2 CHF a day</li><li>Tip the bellman 1-2 CHF per bag</li><li>Restroom attendant 1-2 CHF</li><li>Toast: "Prost", "Salute", "A Votre Sante" means 'To your health.' </li><li>Guests: Lastly, propose a toast to your host/hostess, and to the chef!</li><li>Hard liquor is served after the meal: Grappa, Campari, Cassis, Sweet Vermouth, Sherry, Champagne, Kirsch, Pear Brandy and Schumli Pflumli is an apres-ski drink, which is plum Schnaps/brandy and coffee with whipped cream! The Swiss version of Irish Coffee. </li><li>The Host proposes the first toast - always.</li><li>Gently clink glasses when invited to do so.</li><li>DO send flowers to the hostess the day of an event, and remember to write a "Thank You" note within 24 hours.</li><li>Give: good quality chocolates or marzipan, pastries, pralines, fine Whisky, wine or Cognac, or a nice coffee table book.</li><li>DO NOT give "Logo" gifts, or extravagant gifts (thought to be tacky), red roses or red carnations (love only) or white chrysanthemums or white calillies (funeral color and flowers)</li><li>DO NOT give knives, scissors or sharp objects (bad luck). </li></ul><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"> <i><b>During your time in bucolic Switzerland, enjoy every moment, day or night, outside!</b></i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i></i></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><i><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-_V78n2pzabU/X0ghDOJfcdI/AAAAAAAAApQ/afwlbRaTtNwPLNeF_pRxTKHyd2joNZ7KgCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b19.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; 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Next thing I knew, 2 Scottish grannies were peeling me up off of the sidewalk. Immediately afterwards, I found myself sitting in a chair at the "Chemist's" (Pharmacy), with a bowl of hydrogen peroxide in my lap. Scraped both knees and palms of both hands, complete with gravel. The Pharmacist was SO nice. Everyone in Scotland is SO nice!</p><p>College friends and I stayed at a post card perfect Bed & Breakfast, right across from Arthur's Seat, a great tour and walk, so be sure to bring good walking shoes to beautiful, green Scotland. Our twin beds/cots were on the third floor. A young couple had just bought the brownstone. The wife offered to help me clean and dress my wounds daily. She said it would be good practice for her 2 young children! She was SO nice and I was much appreciative of her wound care! </p><p>We visited Arthur's seat, famous St. Andrews golf course, the 1st golf course in the world, shopped for our family tartans, bought Aran oatmeal wool "jumpers" (sweaters), and of course, visited the local pubs and had Afternoon Tea at a nice local tea house.</p><p>Edinburgh hosts many outdoor Highland Games. The hammer throw, stone-put, weight-throw, caber toss (log), tug-a-war, just to name a few! All the men are in their family kilts, too. As well, they have female Highland dancers, and of course a Scottish pipe & drum band. It's fun to watch. Google one up and go!</p><p>Visiting the Edinburgh Castle was a treat! I still remember the model of the Castle's long History inside and the hundreds of toy soldiers inside the models! Major General Alastair Bruce is now the Governor of Edinburgh Castle. He's also the manners man from Downton Abbey! He's SO polite as well, of course! Look up the tour and go! Wonderful views of the city from the top of the castle too.</p><p>Here are a few Scottish tips: </p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>In Scotland, Old European Manners apply. (See the "Old European Manners" post dated August 12, 2020) </li><li>Scotland, a Parliamentary Monarchy, about the size of South Carolina, has a population of 5.5 million and a GDP per capita of $38,500 USD. The 14th highest in the world, or so argue those rallying for her independence from the UK. Edinburgh is the Capital of Scotland with a population of about 500,000. Glasgow, a large city, is 600,000. </li><li> Scotland is known for their rich tradition of family tartan kilts, Aran wool sweaters, golf courses, scotch whisky, thistle, Highland games, Balmoral Castle, Gleneagles Resort, the horned Highland cow, St. Andrew's University, Ryder Cup, Edinburgh Castle, and being frugal. Or as my Mother used to say: "The Scotch in me."</li><li>Scotland's weather is a nice wet cold if you are dressed appropriately. Temperatures are anywhere from 35-65 degrees. Save your coins up for a year to buy a traditional Aran cable Scottish sweater! You will have it for years and will wear it everywhere! </li><li>Being that I grew up in the Commonwealth of Virginia, where many Scots settled in the 'new world', Scottish accents sound very similar to old Virginia accents: "Around & about the house" (hard accent on the "ou"). Hard to understand Scots if you're not familiar with the accent.</li><li>Famous Artists are: Alexander Calder, James Guthrie, John Steele, Joseph Boehm (sculpture), Henry Raeburn</li><li>Famous Arthurs & Poets: Robert Louis Stevenson, Robert Burns, Sir Walter Scott, Alison Cockburn, Adam Smith, John Knox</li><li>Music: Celtic music, Gerry Rafferty, Rod Stewart, Bay City Rollers, Sheena Easton</li><li>Movies: 007 Series with Sean Connery, Braveheart, Man of Honor, Brigadoon</li><li>The dress code is conservative casual chic. Layer. Black, navy or beige always work. NO white tennis shoes. NO fanny packs. NO shorts. NO bra straps showing or tube tops (you'll freeze to death anyway!)</li><li>Half the fun of traveling is you never know where you are going to end up. So, dress up a bit and you can go anywhere and treat yourself to a nice lunch or Afternoon Tea. You can also walk into any fancy hotel as though you belong and use their very lovely and clean restrooms. Always carry small bills for the restroom.</li><li>DO NOT wear tartan in Scotland unless it is YOUR family tartan. </li><li>Please be quiet. Speak quietly. Reserved. Be very polite. Courteous. The Scottish are very private. Blend in. Europe is NOT your yelling college campus. </li><li>DO without ice. The weather is cool anyway, so you don't need ice. </li><li>Catch phrases: "Auld Lang Syne" which means 'Old Long Since', or Ago. </li><li>Magic words: Please use your magic words everywhere. Please, May I, Thank You, You're Welcome. </li><li>DO NOT eat while walking down the street, or while on public transportation. It is considered to be rude. Do not yell or raise your voice while on the street. Be quiet. Take your time. Enjoy. </li><li>"Pants" are underpants. Say "trousers" or "slacks."</li><li>Hand Shaking should be 2 firm shakes then down. </li><li>Eye contact is important. Also smile. DO NOT stare.</li><li>Introductions are more formal than in the USA. "How do you do?" is proper. Women extend their hand first.</li><li>Alcohol is Scotch, Whiskey, and beer. Men order a pint. Ladies order 1/2 pint.</li><li>Cuisine is: Haggis (It's better than Spam), Scotch eggs (delicious), Kippers (Herring fish - similar to anchovies and your partner must have them too as you both will be tasting them all day), Salmon, Crawachan (oatmeal with a dash of whisky, cream and sugar), YUM!</li><li>Tipping: Tip 10-12% as waiters are paid a nice wage. Give an extra 5-10% if the service is excellent. Hand the tip directly to the server. In our new complicated world, some tips disappear off of the table. </li><li>Dining is Continental style only! Goes back to Kings, trust issues and knaves with daggers up their sleeves. DO NOT put your hands in your lap. Scots will think you are hiding something or are untrustworthy. Wrists above the table always.</li><li>Take registered Taxi's only. </li><li>Tip the Porter 2 GBP per Bag. Tip the Maid 4 GBP per day. Tip Room service 15%</li><li>Currency is the Great British Pound (GBP)</li><li>Time is on 24 hours. Practice subtracting 12. </li></ul><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i> Remember: NEVER ask a Scotsman what he wears under his Kilt.</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oGU3jOqvT-8/Xz84DK-JWOI/AAAAAAAAAoY/azzwoNGFao4IMNSTXABZdHFueTMdkjaMwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b0a.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1040" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-oGU3jOqvT-8/Xz84DK-JWOI/AAAAAAAAAoY/azzwoNGFao4IMNSTXABZdHFueTMdkjaMwCLcBGAsYHQ/s640/fullsizeoutput_1b0a.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QWqnDWTJnL0/Xz84UyqgYfI/AAAAAAAAAok/HRtoW5RqrkQKAtslxRZxJeStqk2GXAnHwCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b0c.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1203" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QWqnDWTJnL0/Xz84UyqgYfI/AAAAAAAAAok/HRtoW5RqrkQKAtslxRZxJeStqk2GXAnHwCLcBGAsYHQ/s640/fullsizeoutput_1b0c.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><p style="text-align: center;"><br /></p><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-rfPmjsswdoc/Xz84IpzwP8I/AAAAAAAAAoc/alsHjy_bKRY32SfLH1ORmx_Ru2DuwoulACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b0b.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1420" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-rfPmjsswdoc/Xz84IpzwP8I/AAAAAAAAAoc/alsHjy_bKRY32SfLH1ORmx_Ru2DuwoulACLcBGAsYHQ/s640/fullsizeoutput_1b0b.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><i><br /></i><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><br /></i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i><br /></i></p><p> </p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-44024130755574584782020-08-18T21:27:00.010-07:002021-02-17T14:51:13.298-08:00Austria & Leisl's Famous Sound of Music Glass Gazebo <p> As a student abroad in 1981, getting off the train in Salzburg, Austria, college girl friends and I were approached by a nice lady offering her Bed & Breakfast to us as a lovely place to stay. Was it ever! Glad we were clean, groomed and dressed more like Liesl than like we were cleaning out our garage, so we felt like proper travelers, not like the stereotypical "Ugly American" traveler. </p><p>We were also handed information by a gentleman from the "Austrian resistance." Remember, this was before the Berlin Wall fell. We could spend 1/2 hour in a family's apartment learning to speak Austro-Bavarian, the unofficial language of Austria. Afterwards, we would be treated to the movie: The Sound of Music, for $5 cash each. The family would stay in their modest kitchen for the entire 4 hours as not to disturb us. All this for $15 towards "the cause." August was also "Mozart Festival week, so we attended a concert at the beautiful Salzburg Opera House. Quite the experience!</p><p>At the B & B, our quilted trundle type twin beds were in an apartment loft above the barn, with red & white checkered curtains on the windows all around. We awoke to a breakfast of eggs, sweet tasting bread, butter & jam, ham & cheese and fresh cow's milk, listening to chickens in the barnyard clucking about.</p><p>We also visited the Sound of Music Trellis, the Pegasus Fountain, the Mirabell Palace Gardens, and the Glass Gazebo, which had unfortunately been moved across the road from the Loepoldskron Palace. The then owners were tired of tourists trespassing on their property, and as a result, Liesl's glass Gazebo had been neglected, was broken and in disrepair. Our hearts sank as we stepped over broken benches and glass! Since then, money has been raised and the beloved gazebo has been reconstructed and relocated in the Schloss Hellbrunn gardens in Southern Salzburg. </p><p>Here are a few stats & travel tips for Austria:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>There are numerous Sound of Music tours & they look like fun! In Salzburg, it's easy to get around. Pick one that suits your energy, time & enjoy! Mozart concerts are numerous as well!</li><li>Austria also has a "Cow Festival" every Summer, but don't kiss the cows or get too close!</li><li>"Old European Manners" apply in Austria although they are a modern and liberal country (see my August 12, 2020 post)! Use these manners always. </li><li>Austria is a bit smaller than the State of Maine. Easy to get around on the trains and busses.</li><li>Vienna is the Capitol and their population is about 1.9 Million. Salzburg is about 155,000.</li><li> Austria is a Federal Republic with a population of 9 Million. GDP is $53,558 USD.</li><li>The weather is cool at 30 Degrees F in Winter to 68 degrees F in Summer. Be sure to layer! </li><li>The official language is German. English & other "Germanic" languages such as French & Italian are spoken. Don't be surprised if most Austrians speak 3-4 languages!</li><li>Currency is the Euro. As well, best to travel with a debit/credit card with NO foreign usage fees.</li><li>Dress is "Casual Chic." Conservative. I know it can be boring, but black or navy clothing can be dressed up or down, goes anywhere, and makes you look thinner! Blouses/shirts can be jewel toned for women and beige/grey/sage for men. Best to blend in when abroad! NO SHORTS in the evenings. Gentlemen must wear slacks. Women can wear dark, clean dress jeans, but some hotels or venues may not accept jeans of any type. The 'little black dress' for women works anywhere! Some venues may require a Jacket and/or tie, so check before you go out.</li><li>Travel quietly. DO NOT yell. DO NOT be loud or boisterous. Europe is not your college campus.</li><li>DO NOT walk around, stand, or take photographs with your hands in your pockets. Pants pockets are for giving or receiving change only.</li><li>DO NOT eat walking down the Street or chew gum in public. Considered rude!</li><li>Continental dining must be observed in Europe. Otherwise, according to legend, you may be thought of as hiding something, untrustworthy, dishonest. Keeping your wrists above the table dates back to King Louis XIV (seen <i>Game of Thrones</i>?), when he commanded all men at the table to show they had no daggers up their sleeves. DO clean your plate.</li><li>DO NOT put your hands in your lap. Wrists gently above the table please! </li><li>Break your rolls up and eat them in small pieces. An old Christian tradition. If you do not have a Butter Plate, place your roll on your plate or table. </li><li>Viennese men may kiss the hand of a lady "of a certain age."</li><li>Eye contact is important, and a firm hand shake.</li><li>Ask to use the "W.C." The 'water closet' is the restroom!</li><li>At any company or family gathering, stand when a woman enters the room.</li><li>Titles are important. Use titles and last names first until specifically invited to use first names. </li><li>Shake hands with everyone upon greeting and departing. A lady extends her hand first. </li><li>"Herr" = Mr., "Fran" = Mrs., "Fraulein" = Miss., + title + last name.</li><li>Use your 'Magic Words:" "Bitte" = please. "Bitteschon" = you're welcome. "Danka" = thank you. "Guten Morgen" = good morning. "Guten Tag" = good day. "Auf Wiedersehen" = goodbye. </li><li>Appetizer = "Vorspeise." Main Course = "Hauptspeise." Dessert = "Nachspeise" (pudding).</li><li>Vegetables = "Gemuse." Meat = "Fleisch." Bread = "Brot", and Soup = 'Suppe." </li><li>Greet everyone, even in public. "Hallo" = hello. No PDA!</li><li>Gift Giving to a host/hostess: DO give odd numbers of flowers, as even numbers are bad luck. Give: chocolates, nice wine, good brandy or whisky. If you give a leather wallet, put a penny in it. This will guarantee the recipient will never be poor. </li><li>To a host/hostess: DO NOT give Red carnations (true love), perfume, or extravagant gifts, knives (bad luck) or Logo gifts. </li><li>To summon a waiter: raise your hand with index finger extended.</li><li>VAT tax "service inklusive" of 10% - 15% is added to and listed on your restaurant bill. It is traditional to add 5-10% more in cash on the table, ending with a full Euro amount (round up). NEVER leave change or a penny on the table. It is considered an insult. </li><li>When greeting your drinking buddies at the Pub, knock on the Oak table. This means the Devil cannot touch you because Oak is considered a holy tree.</li><li>Thespians don't say "break a leg", instead they spit on each others' left shoulders! </li><li>Tip the Taxi driver 10%. Tip the Porter 2 Euros per bag. Tip the Maid 4 Euros per day. Save your cash in a jar all year long for tipping. You will receive much better service and your small generosity will be appreciated and remembered. </li><li> "Gulasch" = paprika beef with noodles. "Weinerschnitzel" = breaded, fried veal cutlet. "Fladle", or "Frittensuppe", is beef broth pancake soup. "Tafelspitz" = Boiled beef. "Melange" = coffee with hot milk. "Apfelstrudel" = apple strudel."Schlage" = whipped cream. "Milchrahmstrudel" = cream cheese strudel. </li><li>TOAST: "Prost" Cheers! NEVER toast with water. It means you are "wishing death" on those you toast. Wine is served with most meals. </li></ul><p></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i>Repeat after me: "Ein Bier Bitte" (One beer, please)</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"><i>and remember to try the Sachertorte. It is delicious!</i></p><p style="text-align: center;"></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-j0jCX8V0E7U/Xzyp25LTTjI/AAAAAAAAAn0/maK7hIX31uAcL_bNgKToh-oUBbGmFZkZACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b09.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1403" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-j0jCX8V0E7U/Xzyp25LTTjI/AAAAAAAAAn0/maK7hIX31uAcL_bNgKToh-oUBbGmFZkZACLcBGAsYHQ/s640/fullsizeoutput_1b09.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QXEaqtNjdIk/Xzyp8zU89lI/AAAAAAAAAn4/5QFPrX4YgioabQ6PoPtuGxAlz0porrfewCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b08.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1211" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-QXEaqtNjdIk/Xzyp8zU89lI/AAAAAAAAAn4/5QFPrX4YgioabQ6PoPtuGxAlz0porrfewCLcBGAsYHQ/s640/fullsizeoutput_1b08.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><br /><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EDQ9rEQftwE/XzyqBauSVPI/AAAAAAAAAn8/rxjwVtAnzyczAjMut-9ScoDxpCPER5BoACLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/fullsizeoutput_1b07.jpeg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1322" data-original-width="2048" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-EDQ9rEQftwE/XzyqBauSVPI/AAAAAAAAAn8/rxjwVtAnzyczAjMut-9ScoDxpCPER5BoACLcBGAsYHQ/s640/fullsizeoutput_1b07.jpeg" width="640" /></a></div><i><br /></i><p></p><p> </p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-10083681783753743012020-08-17T10:45:00.002-07:002020-08-17T10:46:04.307-07:00Asian Dining Tips with Chopsticks and Popcorn!<p style="text-align: left;"> A lovely UVA college senior, May Holstad, interviewed me for a business etiquette article (Welcome Inc. 2002-2003 Issue, www.richmag.com, "Missed Manners"). She was from China. She shared a cute, local Chinese superstition during our interview:</p><p style="text-align: center;"><i> If a girl holds her chopsticks close to the base, she will marry someone near to where she lives. If she holds her chopsticks close to the top, she will marry someone far away. </i> </p><p style="text-align: left;">Eating in the Asian style is not hard or impossible. It's actually fun, if you practice, and it's fun to practice in just 3 easy steps Hold the first chopstick in the hollow of your thumb and rest it on your middle finger. Hold the second chopstick like a pencil. Hold the 1st steady in position, and move the 2nd back & forth. Practice with popcorn! First one piece, then 2, and so on. </p><p style="text-align: left;">Interestingly enough, many Asian etiquette & manners and social traditions were adopted by the Europeans, as were many Fine china designs with the Tea trade in the 15th Century. So, many of the Asian etiquette & manners are the same as many of the Old European etiquette & manners. </p><p style="text-align: left;">First and paramount in all Asian cultures is "saving face." Asians do not like "losing face." Honor, etiquette and manners are very important. </p><p>Asian Dining Tips:</p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Never stand your chopsticks straight up in a bowl of rice! Rude!</li><li>DO NOT ever point your chopsticks at another person. Very rude.</li><li>Always use the large ends of your chopsticks to serve yourself from the platter.</li><li>Dining is often "family style." Dishes are all placed on the table "Buffet Style", so help yourself.</li><li>Always sample every dish. You may find a new favorite food!</li><li>The soul is thought to reside in one's head. DO NOT touch your head or face while eating. Interestingly enough, in this new age of COVID19, this Asian and old European manner is back in Vogue!</li><li>DO NOT set your chopsticks or knife (if you are given Western utensils) on the table. This act is considered bad luck. Set them on the chopstick or knife rest or on your plate.</li><li>Belch, slurp and clang! It is considered a compliment to the chef.</li><li>Don't take the last helping of anything. Superstition says this is bad luck.</li><li> DO NOT eat food directly from the platter. It is not your personal plate!</li><li>A meal may be up to 12 courses, and may last up to 2-3 hours. Take small portions, take your time, taste everything, and enjoy!</li><li>Shark Fin soup is a delicacy. Try it!</li><li>You may be given a hot finger towel at the end of the meal rather than a napkin.</li><li>Oranges or fruits may be served last, signifying the end of the meal.</li><li>The "Guest of Honor" sits facing the door.</li><li>To beckon the waiter, extend your arm & hand out, palm down and make scratching motions with your fingers. Pointing your index finger is considered rude. </li><li>Asians are close talkers, but no PDA. </li><li>Handshaking is soft. Keep your space. Do not stand too close. NO hugging. NO "air kissing." A slight bow from the waist is appreciated.</li><li>In bowing, keep your arms at your sides. Back straight. Eyes down. SLIGHTLY bow at the waist. The inferior person bows longer and lower.</li><li>One may nod to give a verbal salutation. </li><li>Western style handshakes are becoming more popular. </li><li>Sit with both feet on the floor. Showing the soles of your shoes is an insult.</li><li>DO NOT cross or swing your legs at the table. Women only may cross their ankles at the table. </li><li>Toast: "Yum-Boui" = Cheers! "Gan bei" = Bottoms up!</li><li>Formal "Family"names are used until invited to use first "given" names. </li><li>Service charge may be included and should be listed on your check. </li><li>Dress is conservative, clean and modest. No bare arms for women. No tube tops or bra straps showing for women. Modest skirts or slacks for women. Jacket & tie may be required in some European hotels. NO SHORTS in the evening. Long pants for men. </li><li>Shake hands with everyone upon meeting and leaving. </li><li>Smiling can be interpreted as confusion or humiliation. Asian girls are taught not to smile.</li><li>Eye contact should be quick. DO NOT stare. Asian Mothers use staring as punishment for bad children. </li><li>Higher ranking adults are introduced first, and women before men.</li><li>Never point with your finger. Rude!</li><li>Never wink.</li><li>Speak quietly. Don't fidget.</li><li>Cover your mouth if you yawn.</li><li>DO NOT blow your nose or wipe your nose at the table. Excuse yourself to the restroom.</li><li>If you choose to use Western silverware, eat in the "Continental Style." </li><li>Pass and gesture with your right hand only. The left hand is used for toileting and is considered "dirty."</li><li>The "OK" hand gesture means "money." Stay away from hand gestures.</li><li>Clerks may place your change on the counter. Don't be insulted. NO touching.</li></ul><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Remember these superstitions: </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>When eating a whole fish, the head of the fish should face the guest of honor. </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>*****</i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>DO NOT turn your fish over when eating. This gesture is considered bad luck. </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>It means your boat will capsize! </i></div><div><br /></div>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-62472444691352516542020-08-15T21:28:00.003-07:002020-09-19T14:54:46.081-07:00The Language of Flowers is Melodic<p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-8KN_LLLLmSA/X2Z-B3ttbbI/AAAAAAAAAzc/er39C_9eEoYO5ONAwKoPUz-5CHXoc_CJgCLcBGAsYHQ/s2048/IMG_4981.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="2048" data-original-width="1536" height="320" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-8KN_LLLLmSA/X2Z-B3ttbbI/AAAAAAAAAzc/er39C_9eEoYO5ONAwKoPUz-5CHXoc_CJgCLcBGAsYHQ/s320/IMG_4981.JPG" /></a></div><br /> Ever watch old movies? <i>Wuthering Heights, Sense & Sensibility, Camille, Now Voyager, Kate & Leopold?</i> Notice the flowers? Lavender. Hot house versus field flowers. Gardenias. Peony. Aster. Orange Lilly. Begonia. <p></p><p>Ever wonder what these flowers all mean? Do they each have more than one meaning? Contrary meanings?</p><p>Here's a light, lovely list:</p><p></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Lavender = healing, distrust, purity, devotion, serenity, grace. Purple is the color of royalty which signifies refinement, elegance & luxury. Used as insect repellent by the Romans and as perfume by the Greeks.</li><li>Wild Flowers = represent joy</li><li>Gardenia = secret love, "You are lovely", gentleness & purity</li><li>Orange Lilly = extreme hatred</li><li>Begonia = danger</li><li>Garlands are for the Conqueror </li><li>Aster = Astraea was a greek Godess. Legend says her tears created this star burst style flower. </li><li>Peony = prosperity & good fortune, happy marriage </li><li>Morning Glory = unrequited love & grave flowers</li><li>Ivy = continuity </li><li>Amaryllis = splendid beauty</li><li>Cabbage Rose =strength in love, depth of passion</li><li>Black-eyed Susan = justice</li><li>Red Tulip = a confession of love</li><li>Yellow Rose = Friendship, "Do I deserve you?" "Am I worthy?" jealousy, infidelity</li><li>Daisy = innocence, simplicity</li><li>Marigold = link between death & love, grief, despair, jealousy</li><li>Iris = hope</li><li>Hyacinth = loveliness, "Please forgive me"</li><li>Lily = refined beauty, pure heart</li><li>Calla Lily = resurrection, rebirth, magnificent beauty, represents the goddess Hera</li><li>Lilly of the Valley (May Lilies, May Bells) happiness, purity, trustworthiness, but don't eat them, they are toxic</li><li>Sweet Pea = Goodbye</li><li>Orchid = wisdom, refinement, beauty</li><li>Clover = "Think of me"</li><li>Sunflower = vitality, spiritual attainment, ambition, good luck</li><li>Tulip = irresistible love</li><li>Violet = faithfulness</li><li>Purple Carnation = capriciousness</li><li>Lilac = the joy of youth</li><li>Yellow Carnation = rejection </li><li>Dhalia = commitment (blue or green) fresh start, discovery</li><li>Pink Rose = grace, gentleness, happiness</li><li>White Rose = purity</li><li>Pink Carnation = "I'll never forget you"</li><li>Hydrangea = pink and blue: sorrow for mistreating the girl, gratitude for being understood</li><li>Coral Rose = friendship, modesty, sympathy</li><li>White Carnation = sweet, lovely</li><li>Mint = virtue</li><li>Red Rose = love</li><li>Crimson Rose = mourning</li><li>Lavender Rose = love at 1st sight</li><li>Fern = bonds of love, magic</li><li>Zinnia = (Yellow) means, the daily remembering of good memories </li></ul><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Remember: </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Flowers have many meanings and all bring joy, whatever they mean </i></div><div style="text-align: center;"><i>when given in earnest to those you love.</i></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><p></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-14696443352837004982020-08-14T14:37:00.002-07:002020-08-14T14:44:20.917-07:00International Gift Giving Tips <p>Many years ago, I spoke to a young reporter who said her mother told her she did not have to bring a gift to the host/hostess when invited to dinner at their home. The reporter justified this opinion by saying: "They invited me. I am the guest." YES, they were entertaining her! Hosts spend many hours cleaning and taking much trouble and expense to entertain you. </p><p>As a single girl for 20 years, I get it! Yes, it is expensive to have to buy a gift to go to someone's home for dinner, or special occasion. The very least anyone can do is to bake cookies or a bunt cake, bring a modest bottle of table wine, or a small gathering of hot house or field flowers. </p><p>At a minimum, you are obliged as a good guest, to show your appreciation in bringing a small gift and writing a "Thank You" note.</p><p>If you are at odds about your choice of gift internationally, you can always call the host country Embassy. They know the Protocol! </p><p>So, below is everyone's favorite post, and especially fun for teenagers! Interesting to read even if you are not planning domestic or international travel or gift giving at the moment. </p>USA GIFTS - Appropriate:<br /><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine or modest bottle of table wine (drinkers only)</li><li>Local Micro-brewery beer (drinkers only)</li><li>A nice Scotch (drinkers only)</li><li>Pretty bar towel or kitchen towel set (2) </li><li>Wine stopper (drinkers only)</li><li>Fine chocolates</li><li>Appropriate Magazine subscription </li><li>Coffee Table book from your home region</li><li>Small decorative Dresser box or dish</li><li>Nice pen & pencil set</li><li>Plant</li><li>Lovely picture frame (with a photo of the family inside if you have a special one)</li><li>"Hot House" or field flowers</li><li>Homemade cookies, brownies or bunt cake</li><li>Regional gifts such as Virginia peanuts</li><li>Nice coffee or teas and tea related products</li></ul><div>USA GIFTS - NOT Appropriate</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Any alcohol or alcohol related products to non-drinkers</li><li>Red roses</li><li>Perfum, bath products or personal items</li><li>Cash</li><li>Home improvement gift card (!)</li><li>Dining out gift card (!)</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>EUROPEAN and UK GIFTS - Appropriate:</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine Chocolates</li><li>Flowers (as always, check local appropriate types of flower, colors, and number)</li><li>Fine liquors, wines or Scotch</li><li>Small gifts for children such as candy, little chocolates or little toys</li><li>Small silver or porcelain dresser boxes or dishes </li><li>Coffee table book from your home region</li><li>Fine coffee or teas</li></ul></div><div>EUROPEAN and UK GIFTS - Not Appropriate:</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Logo gifts</li><li>Expensive gifts (may be embarrassing for host/hostess)</li><li>Red roses (for lovers only) or white flowers (funeral color)</li><li>Perfume, bath products or anything personal</li><li>Any alcohol or related products for non-drinkers</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>LATIN AMERICA GIFTS - Appropriate</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine chocolates</li><li>Logo gifts from your home region (for example Virginia peanuts)</li><li>Small gifts for children such as candy, little chocolates or small toys</li><li>Coffee table book from your home region</li><li>Perfume</li></ul><div>LATIN AMERICA GIFTS - Inappropriate</div></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Knives, scissors or sharp instruments (considered bad luck - even with a 'lucky penny' enclosed)</li><li>Handkerchief (sorrow), bath products (too personal)</li><li>Expensive gift (may embarrass the host/hostess)</li><li>To arrive empty handed with no gift (considered inconsiderate)</li><li>Any gift in purple or black(funeral colors)</li><li>Any gift numbering 13 (bad luck)</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>JAPAN GIFTS - Appropriate</div><div> (present or receive the gift with both hands & do not open the gift right when given)</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine Scotch or Brandy</li><li>Flowers in even numbers, but NOT the #4 (death) and NO white flowers (funeral color)</li><li>Cash (given to children in a red envelope for the New Year for good luck) cash in even numbers, but NOT the #4 (death)</li><li>Coffee table book from your home region</li><li>US Logos from your home region </li><li>US brand names are popular</li><li>Products from your home region</li><li>Company Logo products</li><li>Fine Tea or tea related products, including shortbreads and jam</li></ul></div><div><br /></div><div>JAPAN GIFTS - Inappropriate</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Clocks or watches (means 'Time is running out')</li><li>Potted plant (for a sick person in Hospital)</li><li>Personal or grooming items such as a comb (the word for comb sounds like death) </li><li>Candles (represents a fire) </li><li>Knives or scissors (DO NOT give even with a 'lucky penny' attached as they symbolize cutting a relationship or death)</li><li>Joke gifts or humorous gifts (they do not translate well & are considered inconsiderate)</li><li>Any gift "Made in Japan" (obviously)</li><li>Any gift numbering 4 (the number 4 means death)</li><li>Any gift numbering 9 (the number 9 means suffering)</li><li>Anything with a Fox, Wolf or Badger (menacing)</li><li>DO NOT wrap gifts in white or black wrapping paper (funeral colors)</li><li>DO NOT give ribbons or bows (used for gift wrapping only, and it's an art in Japan)</li><li>DO NOT surprise your host/hostess with your gift first. allow them to give you a gift first </li></ul><div><br /></div></div><div>ARAB COUNTRIES GIFTS - Appropriate</div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Coffee table book</li><li>Made in the USA gifts</li><li>Regional gifts</li><li>Corporate gifts</li><li>Little candies or small toys for the children</li></ul><div>ARAB COUNTRIES - Inappropriate</div></div><div><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Any alcohol or alcohol related products</li><li>Logo merchandise</li><li>Joke, humorous or cheap novelty gifts</li><li>Any gift for someone's spouse (too personal)</li><li>Any gift that is white (mourning)</li><li>DO NOT give food (symbolizing poverty)</li></ul></div><div style="text-align: left;">TAIWAN and SINGAPORE GIFTS - Appropriate</div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine Scotch or Whisky</li><li>Coffee table book from your home region</li><li>Company Logo gifts are popular </li><li>Fine desk set</li><li>Fine daily appointment books</li><li>Fine writing journals</li><li>Fine tea leaves and fine tea related ceramics</li><li>Fine jade</li><li>DO NOT give white flowers or white gifts (funeral color)</li><li>DO NOT give anything in a set of 4 or number 4 (death)</li><li>DO refuse the gift a few times before accepting (polite and modest)</li><li>Accept and give the gift with both hands (respectful)</li><li>Reciprocation is tradition, so take into account the recipient's financial status</li><li>Wrap well in red or pink colors</li><li>Give an even number of flowers (but NOT the #4 or #13. Odd numbers = bad omen The #6 is good luck) NO white flowers (funeral)</li></ul></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">TAIWAN and SINGAPORE GIFTS - Inappropriate</div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Clocks or watches ("Time is passing" which signifies death)</li><li>Anything extravagant (reciprocation tradition) </li><li>Knives or scissors (severing of a relationship and considered bad luck even with a 'lucky penny' attached)</li><li>Wall decorations (Feng shui)</li><li>Handkerchiefs (wiping away tears which signifies sadness and mourning)</li><li>Red pens or writing on the card with a red pen (signifies blood)</li><li>"Made in Asia" (tacky)</li><li>Joke or humorous novelty gifts (they don't translate well and are considered to be disrespectful)</li><li>Food (symbolizing poverty)</li><li>Bourbon (they do not fancy bourbon)</li><li>DO NOT give items numbering 4 or a gift in a set of 4 (death) While 8 is a lucky number, do not give 2 sets of 4</li></ul></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">SOUTH KOREA GIFTS - Appropriate</div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine Scotch</li><li>Status gifts from a designer store</li><li>Regional gift from your home country</li><li>Coffee table book from your home country</li><li>Company products</li><li>Fine teas and tea related products</li><li>Fine porcelain bowls </li></ul></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">SOUTH KOREA GIFTS - Inappropriate</div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Knives or scissors (bad luck even with a 'lucky penny' attached)</li><li>White or yellow Chrysanthemums (funeral flowers)</li><li>shoes (the soles of shoes are considered dirty and to throw your shoe at someone is an insult to them)</li><li>Food (poverty)</li><li>"Made in Asia" products (tacky) or joke novelty products (cheap)</li></ul></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">CHINA and HONG KONG GIFTS - Appropriate</div><div style="text-align: left;">(gift reciprocity when suitable is tradition "Li Shang Wang Lai") </div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Fine Scotch</li><li>Coffee table book from your home country</li><li>Company products</li><li>Special Regional gifts from your home country</li><li>Fine teas or tea related products</li><li>Give and receive gifts with both hands</li><li>Numbers 6 and 8 are good luck (but NOT 2 sets of 4 as the #4 means death)</li><li>The recipient may not open the gift infront of you (modesty and humility) </li><li>Presentation is an important sign of respect. Wrap the gift well.</li><li>Red wrapping paper is considered a happy color</li><li>White or black wrapping paper is for funerals</li><li>Gold or silver wrapping paper is used for weddings</li></ul></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;">CHINA GIFTS - Inappropriate</div><div style="text-align: left;"><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>Nothing personal (perfume, bath products, neckties, belts or jewelry)</li><li>Handkerchiefs (sadness or mourning at a funeral)</li><li>Shoes (evil)</li><li>Clocks or watches ("Time is running out") </li><li>DO NOT write with a red pen on a card (blood) although red wrapping paper is considered a happy color</li><li>DO NOT give any item numbering 4 or anything in a set of 4 (death)</li><li>Be certain to remove the price tag</li><li>Food (symbolizing poverty)</li><li>DO NOT give cut flowers (given at funerals) </li><li>DO NOT give anything white (funeral color)</li><li>Umbrella (break up)</li><li>DO NOT give food (poverty). Pears represent parting or leaving.</li></ul><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Always remember, gifts are about the recipient, not the giver.</i></div></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><p></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-9524340797999250072020-08-12T20:40:00.005-07:002020-09-25T14:54:04.102-07:00Old European Manners<p>Old European manners are lovely and often seem as though they are from a former and slower world. These subtle manners are harder & harder to find, but they're still practiced in grand hotels and restaurants, high society & by famous Hollywood figures, a few politicians, and members of the "Greatest Generation." Those in the know, know how powerful these elusive manners can be. If you happen to visit another country, attend a lavish charity gala, attend an important company dinner, dine in a fancy restaurant, or travel to any big city, even in the US, here are a few tips:<br /></p><ul style="text-align: left;"><li>DON'T use the word "charming" or "classy."</li><li>ALWAYS have your business card or personal calling card at the ready when attending a business meeting or at a trusted personal gathering, shopping or banking, especially in big cities.</li><li>DO hand your business/personal card to people with both hands. This act is considered a sign of respect. Accept a business card as well with both hands. DO NOT grab a business card with one hand and immediately stuff it in your back pants pocket. This behavior is considered rude. Accept it gladly with both hands, gaze at it carefully & slowly put it in your breast pocket, wallet or purse. </li><li>ALWAYS use your "Magic Words." "Please", "Thank you", "May I" and "You're Welcome" go a long way in any language and are appreciated! </li><li>It is polite and a tradition to have a coffee, rum or cognac and hang out a bit after the meal. It is a compliment to the chef, waiter and restaurant to fully enjoy your evening! </li><li>Telling jokes and using slang or curse words DOES NOT translate well. Sports analogies DO NOT translate well either. </li><li>DO speak softly and slowly. DO NOT be loud and boisterous. DO NOT be the "Ugly American." </li><li>DO practice "Continental Dining" style only. The tradition of having your wrists above the table dates back to the 15th Century. Showing you have no dagger up your sleeve lets the King know he can trust you. Having your hands under the table is still culturally thought of today as though you are hiding something. Continental dining is great for left handed people too! </li><li>DO NOT spark up conversations at restaurants, bars, or in line. Europeans are quiet and private.</li><li>Dessert and Cognac are served at the table. Coffee may be served after dessert in another room.</li><li>Just as our Mother taught you, DO NOT talk about religion or politics. </li><li>DO NOT ask for a "house tour." Europeans are very private. Being invited inside a home is a great honor. Be sure to bring a thoughtful, appropriate gift (see International Gift Giving) and be sure to write a thank you note.</li><li>DO NOT leave the table before your host/hostess.</li><li>DO NOT touch or scratch your head or above your shoulders in public. Touching your head is considered beckoning the Devil & bad luck within many religions and in many countries. Ironically, post-COVID19, thankfully, once again, it is NOT appropriate to touch your face. Hopefully, annual flu seasons will be lesser.</li><li>DO NOT stand, walk or pose for photographs with your hands in your pockets. Pockets are for giving change only. Europeans wonder what your hands are doing in there. Keep your hands at your sides.</li><li>DO NOT yawn in public. Or fidget. Or sway from side to side while standing. Stand straight with your hands to the sides of your body. </li><li>DO NOT show emotion, or fight, in the street.</li><li>DO NOT use hand gestures. NO "thumbs up" or the "OK" sign! Different meanings for different gestures, but most of them in most countries are obscene and rude. Just stay away from using your hands altogether! </li><li>Place your fork & knife in the 10:4 position on your plate when finished. Knife blade always facing in. This gesture signals you are finished with your meal. The waiters know. They are trained. </li><li>DO NOT eat or drink while walking down the street, or drink coffee in your car or on public transportation! Eating & drinking on the street or out in public is considered rude. Find a quiet bench in a park, sit & enjoy! </li><li>DO NOT use your hands when talking. Again, the dreaded hand gestures!</li><li>Business is NOT discussed during dinner. It may be discussed during coffee. </li><li>Dress is casual chic, conservative and clean. Always veer toward the more formal. Black and beige clothing is best for blending in. Blending into any culture is key. No tube tops, bra straps showing, or sleeveless tops with arms showing. Collars are a must for men. NO old worn out shoes or filthy sandals with dirty, unpolished feet. It's "Ugly American" tacky. Doormen look at your shoes. Shopgirls look at your purse. </li><li>Please, NO SHORTS for men in the evening. It's not dignified (the "Ugly American" again) & it is considered disrespectful. </li><li>ASK PERMISSION before taking a photo of someone. </li><li>Family is the #1 priority. Education is #2. Where you are from is #3. Different priorities when asking people about themselves. </li><li>DO NOT slap someone on the back. DO NOT snap your fingers. DO NOT whistle. DO NOT chew gum in public. Rude.</li><li>The salad course comes LAST. Good for the digestion. Helps starve off a cravings for sweets. </li><li>Cheese and fruit may also be served after the salad. Also helps in craving sweets.</li><li>"Air Kissing" is popular in many European Countries. 1 or 2 cheeks. Men and/or Women. Check the specific Country.</li><li>Tips are included in the Bill. They are anywhere from 10% - 18%. "SERVICE COMPRIS" or "DIENST INBEGREPEN" is printed on the bottom of the check. DO NOT rely on the waiter or Manager to tell you the truth. My husband and I were on Honeymoon in St. Barth's at a very nice restaurant, and heard a Texas couple ask the waiter if the service was included. The waiter slyly said "No" although "Service Compris" was clearly listed at the bottom of the check. This lack of etiquette knowledge cost the couple $40. Happens all the time. If the service is very good, leave a small extra cash tip on the table when leaving.</li><li>If you want the check, you must ask for it. "Signer s'il vous plait." You may use a signing hand gesture here. The one time a hand gesture is understood without a translation problem (one hand as a paper, one hand as a pen signing). It is polite and tradition to hang out after the meal and enjoy your evening, perhaps also with a cognac, or a 2 oz. port or rum. The waiter, chef and restaurant will be pleased. This is why a small bit of cash is traditionally left on the table after the "Service Compris" bill is paid.</li><li>Vermouth or Cinzano are served BEFORE dinner.</li><li>Beware of drinking in other countries. For example: Belgian Beer has a higher alcohol content than US beer. Italians and Greeks consider it rude if one gets drunk in public. </li><li>DO NOT drink to excess in Europe or the Middle East or especially in Italy or Greece. It is considered rude and is dangerous now in a more dangerous world. </li><li>If you ask for "Whisky" you may be served SCOTCH Whisky. Be specific when ordering.</li><li>In the UK and Europe, husbands/wives/partners ARE NOT seated next to each other at Dinner Parties. This way you get to know other guests. </li><li>Just as in Downton Abbey, in the middle of the meal, the Host will "turn" and speak to the person seated to his left. The guest of honor is seated on the right, so is spoken with first by the host. This "turning" by the host is the "signal" for everyone else to "turn." </li><li>Chrysanthemums are FUNERAL flowers. Stay away from giving white or red flowers. </li><li>DO stand for all introductions. </li><li>It is bad luck and considered rude to point your knife blade out facing someone else or point your chopsticks at someone else. </li><li>Women always extend their hand first for an introduction. </li><li>DO NOT leave coins, or a penny for a tip. Considered an insult. In college as a lunch and dinner waitress, I was left one penny by an Italian gentleman who complained his "French Dip" sandwich was not rare. French Dip NEVER arrives rare unless you happen to catch the chef pulling the roast fresh out of the oven. </li><li>When in Russia or the Middle East, be careful in admiring any object, you may end up with it. Many Old European mannered persons offer their guest "whatever you choose." A Russian Nanny friend painted a dozen eggs, and offered me my choice of egg. One of the best, most favorite, & most memorable gifts I have ever been given. </li><li>In Middle Eastern cultures, not sharing (for example, a Birthday Cake in a Restaurant) opens one up to the "Evil Eye" of envy, jealousy and greed which makes one venerable. </li><li>In some Middle Eastern countries, shoes are associated with fertility. Also, the soles of your shoes are considered dirty. DON'T cross your legs at the knee and show the sole of your shoes. Keep your feet on the floor. Also, to throw your shoes at someone is to insult them.</li><li>Cesar thought when Ester spilled the salt at the table (very expensive seasoning then) she was summoning the Devil. If you spill the salt at the table, throw some over your left shoulder for good luck.</li><li>Again, just like Downton Abbey, banging the Gong once to summon everyone to dinner originates from the eclipse. The "Sky Dog" eats the Sun, and the gong is beat to chase the Sky Dog away! </li><li>The Concierge means "care taker." Take care of the Concierge with a nice tip and they will take care of you!</li></ul><p></p><div style="text-align: center;"><i>Travel safely, travel well, and enjoy your new found "Old European" manners knowledge! </i></div><div><br /></div><p></p>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6313945614651193020.post-23026289223301291972020-08-11T16:08:00.016-07:002020-08-14T14:47:09.367-07:00A Paradigm Shift in Society for the New Millennia & Millennials & Sprezzatura! A paradigm shift is here. Gone are the old European Victorian etiquette & manners of the last Century. Here are the new rules (etiquette) and behaviors (manners) of the new millennium, brought in by the now Millennial generation, coming into a firm adulthood at 30 years of age. Different set of charms. Different set of graces. Different ways of verbal and written communication. Different priorities in their daily lives. Neither better nor worse, because in the end, human nature does not change. It's just different.<br />
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We older generations may not like it. It's not our way. To us it holds no charm. No grace. No trust. Little gratitude. But, Millennials have not grown up like we older ones did. No exploring, playing "Kick the Can" or riding bikes all over the neighborhood with all the nearby kids completely unsupervised until dinner or dark. Millennials have working Moms and have had to have every single activity supervised. After school activities are also supervised whether it be a Dance Class or Lacrosse practice. Weekend activities are supervised too, as are Summer activities. <div><br /></div><div>Gone are the days of "The customer is always right." Now, one has to chat up any customer service representative and follow their instruction to the "T." No trust shown to the customer. Instead, you, the customer, must prove you are to be trusted. No small talk allowed. No sense of humor allowed. Yet, at the end of each fact only, exhausting 40 minute phone call or in store experience, you may or may not accomplish your task needed. You may have to start all over again with a Supervisor. If you don't follow instruction to their "T", as well, you may be disconnected and have to start over. So, just be ready for a minimum 40 minute phone call, and have all your documents, account numbers and a credit card ready.</div><div><br /></div><div>We older ones, raised with our Grandparents born with parents from the Victorian Age were taught discretion. Be gentle. Be kind. Don't ever complain. Be diplomatic in your statements about religion and politics. It is rude to give your unsolicited opinion, verbally or in writing. We wrote quite differently that we spoke. No longer. Millennials write just like they talk. The Online world is their Kingdom. Their Universe. They are more insular in their relationships and lives. More introspective. To them, the unsupervised outside world is not to be trusted, so they will tell you Online exactly how they think and exactly how they feel. We older ones may read it or consider it to be rude, but Millennials do not. It's how they operate. It is how they live, and it's their world now. </div><div><br /></div><div>All in all, Human nature does not change all that much. We all want to be loved. To be accepted. To be polite. To be liked. To be respectful and respected. We all want that elusive Sprezzatura! To do better. To get along socially and in business. We all want to succeed and be happy for ourselves and our families. We all seek respite from an always changing, ever angry and tough world. </div><div><br /></div><div>The important thing to remember about finding happiness today, is to each find our "nitch." Our balance. Life in little increments. Learning from our mistakes and failings. Waking up anew every day and trying to do better. Working on our flaws and listening to family & friends. Forgiving others their sins and cruel behaviors towards us and not worrying about them at all or removing ourselves from those situations. Giving a bad situation or conversation 3 minutes for the other person to vent, then changing direction by politely and diplomatically leaving the conversation or room. </div><div><br /></div><div>Life is not easy. It's one thing after another. It is a survival of the fittest world. The more we do every day to stay "fit", the better we will get along and go along. Versatility is the key. Changing direction is crucial. As my brilliant Step-Sister said at age 15: "Accept, adapt, and move on! "</div><div><br /></div>Better Etiquettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02488992864820879714noreply@blogger.com0